Come What May and Love It

Saturday, July 15, 2017

Haircuts and a few videos - an evening at the Property

It was getting ABOUT THAT TIME, so CJ grabbed her clippers, and we all went down to cool off at the Property one evening. Haircut time !! (The videos at the bottom of this post were before the haircuts)

Mom and Dad (Grandpa and Grandma D) came down also, and relaxed.

Tagg - before

Tagg After

Grandpa Roger BEFORE...........
And there was no after
(he went the next day or to to Great Clips for the hair, but kept his beard)

Thatcher - before

During...........and I forgot to get and after !
Silly Grandma

Tallon relaxing with Grandma

Treyson before

Treyson after

Friday, July 14, 2017

40 years

Happy Anniversary..........
And they said it wouldn't last....

Thursday, July 13, 2017

Fun in Aunt Claudia's Pool

Last Saturday afternoon, when it was so blasted hot, and we were all SO SO HOT from working in the yard on the sprinkling system, we had the opportunity to visit CJ's Aunt Claudia (Nelson)'s pool. It was so refreshing !! We even got Roger D. and Zac in the pool !!

Those boys are fish !
Thatcher is under the water more than he is up out of the water !!

Fun Fun Times

Tagg loves the Diving Board

And only did one belly flop while practicing his diving skills

Helping dad with the squirt gun

Come on Grandpa - let's hit the diving board.

Treyson relaxing and trying to avoid the squirt gun that Dad has commandeered

Hi Grandma !!

Deadly Aim

Dunking Time !!

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

July 4th - I'm a little behind.

I watched the parade with Mom and Dad from the Weber River Bridge (shady side)

Too many people

We took the goats to the Property so that everyone could see them (Mark and Erika)

There was a little tubing.........

Down East Canyon Creek.

Tanja and Jarrett and crew came and had a great time.

There were dogs aplenty !

CJ and Thatcher bring up the rear.

Roger D - dirty from helping on the sprinkling system (post to come)

Payson on the big swing.
He loves it !

Brightyn is a climber :)

Here are some fun videos !!

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Goat update

The goats are growing nicely. Lewis and Clark have gone to their new home at Labs for Liberty. Marvin and Otis will go to Angie Bryant's home on the Richville Lane about July 22nd. The feeder Roger and Zac built is working so nicely. At first, I thought that we had made a mistake in building it, as we were just hand feeding, and couldn't imagine it working. Little did we know, these are SMART goats !! Now 3 times a day (down from 4), out we head calling "baby baby", and they come running, and you can hardly walk for tripping over them. They scramble to get to the bottles as you quickly put them in place. The boys grab hold, and start sucking for dear life. The girls do too, but then they quickly tire of "their" nipple, and try to horn in on the boys action. We have to keep directing them back to their own nipple. Poor little Otis is challenged (or maybe it's his eye site?) and has to be directed to a nipple every time.

This little girls LOVES animals.

Clark and Landon

Payson asking a serious question

Sherilee brought her grandkids down to see the goats in action.

Tiff (Sherilee's daughter) and her son feeding Clark.

Mindy brought her crew !

6 goats !! Enough for everyone :)

The Rose Dairy kids came down. They are PROS when it comes to farm animals. Just look at what that good left over milk has produced.

The Gubler girls (and mom) came to check out the babies. There was MUCH loving going on.

We love to have visitors are our barnyard.

Monday, July 3, 2017

Porter Family Reunion at the Property

Live Band ! Clive Romney and cohorts. Excellent

Visiting and Eating and Relaxing

Aunt Shanna (Grandma Ben's sister) and Aunt Anna (the last remaining DIL of Frank and Emma Porter)

All of the 1st cousins with Aunt Anna
See Grandma Ben on the far left.
These are all Grandchildren of Frank and Emma Porter

Linden's family
Greg, Gina, Elise, Milo, Linda, Norris

Three of Aunt Nona's daughters

Aunt Fern's kids
Vaugh, Renae, Frank, Paul

Grandma Thelma's kids
Uncle Wayne and Grandma Ben

Clive Romney - is the one who wrote this song ! We asked them to play it at the very end as an encore.

Kids of Frank and Emma Porter
Fern, (MOM - Emma), Nona, Linden,
Thelma, Keith

Emma and Frank Porter
Roger's Great Grandparents

"I have learned that the bitter, almost unbearable pain can become

sweet as you turn to your Father in Heaven and plead for

His comfort that comes through

His plan; His Son, Jesus Christ; and His Comforter, who is the Holy Ghost.

I testify that because of Him, even our Savior, Jesus Christ, those feelings

of sorrow, loneliness, and despair will one day be swallowed up in a fullness of joy.

I can depend on Him when He said:

"I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

"Yet a little while, and the world seeth me no more; but ye see me:

because I live, ye shall live also".

-John 14:18-19

From Sunny Mahe's blog

"I know that soon you have to leave
I know it is part of your plan
I'll miss you more than I can say
But before you let go of my hand
Tell me you'll remember me
Tell me you understand
Tell me that you know how much you're loved."

As I reread the words I wrote, they felt familiar. And with the ease with which they found their way from my head to the paper, I wonder if they are not words that I created but rather remembered - spoken to me by loving Heavenly Parents before I came here.

"In the midst of life’s greatest storms, do not forget your divine heritage as a son or daughter of God or your eternal destiny to one day return to live with Him, which will surpass anything the world has to offer."
-Elder Ronald A. Rasband "Lest Thou Forget" Oct. 2016

"Be assured that there is a safe harbor. You can find peace amidst the storms that threaten you. Your Heavenly Father—who knows when even a sparrow falls—knows of your heartache and suffering. He loves you and wants the best for you. Never doubt this. While He allows all of us to make choices that may not always be for our own or even others’ well-being, and while He does not always intervene in the course of events, He has promised the faithful peace even in their trials and tribulations."
—Joseph B. Wirthlin

"That which is the hardest to digest, to process, to integrate into our life experiences is often what ultimately transforms us in the most significant ways. It's a spiritual journey from emotional pain to inner peace.
It is during these times of trial that we come to understand more clearly who we are and why we are on the earth. It's these times of hopelessness that we are initiated into our spiritual power. Such is the spiritual path, and it is indeed a hero's journey."

Tears to Triumph - Marianne Williamson

It is Finished

"Isn’t it interesting that the Greatest Intelligence in the Universe abandoned His Son at the most pivotal moment in His plan? Could it be that it was at this moment that the Greatest Intelligence of All bore witness to the universe that He had put His faith in Jesus? That He knew Jesus would choose Him no matter what? And could it be that when you think He has abandoned you that He is actually saying, ‘I have faith you will choose me even when I’m not there’?” - Michael McLean's Father

Let me be clear:
there is nothing noble or impressive about being cynical. Skepticism is easy – anyone can do it. It is the faithful life that requires moral
strength, dedication, and courage. These
who hold fast to faith are far more impressive than those who give in to doubt
when mysterious questions or concerns arise.
But it should not surprise us that faith is not valued by society. The world has a long history of rejecting
that which it does not understand. And
it has particular trouble understanding things it cannot see. But just because we cannot see something with
our physical eyes does not mean it doesn’t exist. Indeed, “there are more things in heaven and
earth….than are dreamt of” in our textbooks, scientific journals, and worldly philosophies. The universe is filled with wonders profound
and astonishing – things that can be comprehended only through spiritual
eyes. – President Dieter Uchtdorf
(October 2015 General Conf.)

Easter Morning

"Each of us will have our own Fridays—those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays. But I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death—Sunday will come. In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come. No matter our desperation, no matter our grief, Sunday will come. In this life or the next, Sunday will come." -Joseph B. Wirthlin

Faith Like Water

Again, my faith like water falls.
It ebbs and flows in tides
That trap me where I stand.
It cannot hold the weight of all
My hopes and all my fears;
They slip below the surface and
Dwell in depths unseen.
My weary heart is tempted to let
Them lie, untouched, unfelt.
But seedling faith in fourth-watch prayer still
Knows, somehow, that He is there.
He knows of faith and water, and of my
Hopes and fears and depths;
I give them to His keeping,
For holding in His perfect hands.
Again upheld by Saving Grace,
I walk on faith like water.
 ~ Megan Wilcken (January  2015 Ensign)

"No man knows how bad he is till he has tried very hard to be good. A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. That is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is. After all, you find the strength of a German army by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later. That's why bad people-in a sense- know very little about badness. They have lived a sheltered life, by always giving in. We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we fight it, and Christ, because He is the ONLY man who never yielded to temptation, is also the ONLY man who knows to the full what temptation means."
-C.S. Lewis

Service is done in love, not perfection. Don’t expect that no one will ever make a mistake, and don’t hold yourself to a perfect standard. Our families will never be perfect, no matter how much hairspray you use or pleas you cry. Watch for the tender moments, it is in them that you will see the perfect words that are needed in a perfect moment. Perfection doesn’t come as a person, or a family . . . it comes in little glimpses—little moments—when you know you are right where you are supposed to be . . . standing together.

- Ashlee at www.themomentswestand.com

Good Timber by Douglas Malloch

The tree that never had to fight For sun and sky and air and light, But stood out in the open plain And always got its share of rain,
Never became a forest king But lived and died a scrubby thing.
The man who never had to toil To gain and farm his patch of soil,
Who never had to win his share Of sun and sky and light and air, Never became a manly man But lived and died as he began.
Good timber does not grow with ease: The stronger wind, the stronger trees; The further sky, the greater length; The more the storm, the more the strength.
By sun and cold, by rain and snow, In trees and men good timbers grow.
Where thickest lies the forest growth, We find the patriarchs of both.
And they hold counsel with the stars Whose broken branches show the scars Of many winds and much of strife. This is the common law of life.

“Deep in the human unconscious is a pervasive need for a logical universe that makes sense. But the real universe is always one step beyond logic." -Frank Herbert

“The search for a scapegoat is the easiest of all hunting expeditions.” ― Dwight D. Eisenhower

“To believe in God is to know that all the rules will be fair, and that there will be wonderful surprises.” - Ugo Betti

“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.” ― John Wooden

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, and always with the same person." - Mignon McLaughlin

“Except in the case of his only perfect Begotten Son, imperfect people are all God has ever had to work with since time began. That must be terribly frustrating to him, but he deals with it. So should we." - Elder Jeffrey Holland

When a battered, weary swimmer tries valiantly to get back to shore, after having fought strong winds and rough waves which he should never have challenged in the first place, those of us who might have had better judgment, or perhaps just better luck, ought not to row out to his side, beat him with our oars, and shove his head back underwater. That's not what boats were made for. But some of us do that to each other. - Jeffrey R. Holland

Our life on Earth = The 2nd Act. Never do you hear the words, "and they lived happily ever after" in the 2nd Act. (author unknown)

If you spend your time judging people, you don't have time to love them - Mother Teresa

The challenge before us, is never larger than the power behind us (author unknown)

Yes, there are cautions and considerations to make, but once there has genuine illumination, beware the temptation to retreat from a good thing. If it was right when you prayed about it and trusted it and lived for it, it is right now. Don't give up when the pressure mounts. Don't give in. Certainly don't give in to that being who is bent on the destruction of your happiness. He wants everyone to be miserable like unto himself. Face your doubts. Master your fears. "Cast not away therefore your confidence." Stay the course and see the beauty of life unfold for you. –Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

If your eyes are always on your shoelaces, if all you can see is this disappointment or that dilemma, then it really is quite easy to throw in the towel and stop the fight. But what if it is the fight of your life? Or more precisely if it is the fight for your life, your eternal life at that? What if beyond this disappointment or that dilemma, you really can see and can hope for all the best and right things that God has to offer? Oh, it may be blurred a bit by the perspiration running into your eyes, and in a really difficult fight one of the eyes might even be closing a bit, but faintly, dimly, and ever so far away you can see the object of it all. And you say it is worth it, you do want it, you will fight on. Like Coriantumr, you will lean upon your sword to rest a while, then rise to fight again (see Ether 15:24&30). – Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

"Up to a point a man's life is shaped by environment, heredity, and movements and changes in the world about him; then there comes a time when it lies within his grasp to shape the clay of his life into the sort of thing he wishes to be. Only the weak blame parents, their race, their times, lack of good fortune, or the quirks of fate. Everyone has it within his power to say, this I am today, that I shall be tomorrow. The wish, however, must be implemented by deeds." -- from the book The Walking Drum by Louis L'Amour

“Taxes are the rent we pay for a civilized society”– Oliver Wendell Holmes

I think self-control is one of the most critical character traits one needs to develop to be successful in life. You never really mature until you learn to delay immediate gratification in exchange for something of greater value in the long-term. “Easy” never turns out to be easy, really. Anything of value in this life requires a lot of hard work and sacrifice. So many people do what is easy at the time, but end up paying the price later. Just do the difficult thing, make the difficult choice because ultimately it will bring you greater rewards. Just because something is hard, so what? You won't die, you won't shrivel up and melt away into nothingness, you won't permanently break down. You will learn to persist and eventually succeed, and you will feel damn proud of what you accomplished. - Sue Richardson Cokeville, WY

“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow." ~ Mary Ann Radmacher

"Though we miss the departed righteous so much here, hundreds may feel their touch there. One day those hundreds will thank the bereaved for gracefully foregoing the extended association with choice individuals here in order that they can help hundreds there. In God's ecology, talent and love are never wasted. Those who have true hope understand this." – Neal A. Maxwell

"Sometimes unrealized dreams or prayers not answered in the way we hoped are blessings in disguise that fulfill eternal purposes in our lives." - Elder Robert D. Hales

“May your prayers be answered. May you have peace and strength and love and gladness in your lives. I urge you to lift your heads and walk in gratitude. Spare yourselves from the indulgence of self-pity. It is always self-defeating. Subdue the negative and emphasize the positive. Count your blessings and not our problems.” - Gordon B. Hinckley

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” - Marianne Williamson

“Sometimes we are too quick to judge the effect of our successes and failures.” May I add, don’t look at today’s trials as eternal. Heavenly Father does His work in the long term. “There is much which lieth in futurity,” the Prophet Joseph Smith said. “Therefore, … let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed” D&C 123:15, 17

“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.” - Frederick Keonig

Hast thou not known? Hast thou not heard that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? There is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. Isaiah 40:28-29, 31

"Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come." -Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

"Whenever those moments of our extremity come, we must not succumb to the fear that God has abandoned us or that He does not hear our prayers. He does hear us. He does see us. He does love us. When we are in dire circumstances and want to cry “Where art Thou?”, it is imperative that we remember He is right there with us – where He has always been! We must continue to believe, continue to have faith, continue to pray and plead with heaven, even if we feel for a time our prayers are not heard and that God has somehow gone away. He is there. Our prayers are heard. And when we weep, He and the angels of heaven weep with us." - Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

“Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired.” - George S. Patton, U.S. Army General, 1912 Olympian

Exercise your God-given right to think through every proposition that is submitted to you and be unafraid to express your opinions, with proper respect for those to whom you talk and proper acknowledgment of your own shortcomings. - Hugh B. Brown

“I shall not ask the Lord to do, that which I am not willing to do” – Brigham Young

Being where you are; Work where you are; The hour, which you are now wasting, dreaming of some far of success, may be crowded with grand possibilities. - Orison Swett Marden

“Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one. The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort” - Rick Warren

“It doesn’t matter if you try and try and try again, and fail. It does matter if you try and fail, and fail to try again.” – Charles Kettering

"Things work out the best, for those who make the best of the way things turn out" - Don C. Hale (Founder of Big H)

Understanding that heavy things can’t fly, she let go of what was weighing on her heart, the thing she could no more control than carry, and she gave herself a chance, a chance to reach into the unassuming blue, to embrace the possibility of an open sky, with an open heart. She gave herself a chance to soar. – Jodi Hills, An Imperfect Life

In the gospel of Jesus Christ you have help from both sides of the veil, and you must never forget that. When disappointment and discouragement strike ---and they will---- you remember and never forget that if our eyes could be opened we would see horses and chariots of fire as far as the eye can see riding at reckless speed to come to our protection (see 2 Kings. 6:16-17). They will always be there, these armies of heaven, in defense of Abraham’s seed. – Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Often what seems an impossible climb, is just a staircase without the steps drawn in. – Robert Brault

If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. – J.M. Power

I am always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught. – Winston Churchill

“There's no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one." - Jill Churchill

One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can’t utter. – James Earl Jones

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." - Reverend Martin Luther King Jr.

“Everything you are learning now, is preparing you for something else.” – Marjorie Pay Hinckley

Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.

"Live in such a way that those who know you but don’t know Christ, will want to know Christ because they know you."

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." - Reverend Martin Luther King Jr.

"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." – Thomas Edison

"Therefore dearly beloved brethren, let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then my we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God and for his arm to be revealed." D&C 123:17

I have wept in the night for the shortness of sight that to somebody's need made me blind; But I never have yet felt a tinge of regret for being a little too kind.

What if you woke up today, with only the things you thanked God for yesterday?

I didn’t keep my testimony through trying times………My testimony kept me

"He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe is as good as dead; his eyes are closed." ~Albert Einstein

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two. - Louis De Bernieres

We become what we want to be, by consistently being what we want to become each day. – Elder Richard G. Scott

In memory of my dear sweet friend, Theresa Hyde:The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. - Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

"Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not." - Dr. Seuss (The Lorax)

"Seek Heavenly guidance one day at a time...Life by the yard is hard; by the inch, it's a cinch." - President Monson

“You have to believe in yourself, otherwise you can’t do it. If you don’t believe in yourself, how do expect anyone else to? Because ultimately, you’re the one who has to do it.”

Elder Neal A. Maxwell rightly said: “The submission of one’s will is really the only uniquely personal thing we have to place on God’s altar. The many other things we ‘give’ … are actually the things He has already given or loaned to us.”

"Never give up on anyone. And that includes not giving up on yourself.”― Dieter F. Uchtdorf

".....Heaven's kindness will never depart from you, regardless of what happens...... Bad days come to an end, faith always triumphs, and heavenly promises are always kept." --Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

There's one sad truth in life I've found,While journeying east and west,The only folks we really wound,Are those we love the best.We flatter those we scarcely know,We please the fleeting guestAnd deal full many a thoughtless blow,To those who love us best." - Ella Wheeler Wilcox

"Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for, to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you." -Wayne Dyer

“Oh God of second chances and new beginnings, here I am again.” - Nancy Spiegelberg

Our DOUBTS are TRAITORS, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by failing to ATTEMPT - William Shakespere

"Don't judge someone because they sin differently than you." -Dieter F. Uchtdorf

This topic of judging others could actually be taught in a two-word sermon. When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges, or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following: Stop it! I will even quote a bumper sticker I recently saw. It was attached to the back of a car whose driver appeared to be a little rough around the edges, but the words on the sticker taught an insightful lesson. It read,

“Don’t judge me because I sin differently than you. - Elder Dieter Uchtdorf

Remembering Tenzin