Saturday, January 1, 2005

January 2005 - from my journal


January 4, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Dear Mom and Dad, everything is going well here. Roger is back to work after 2 weeks of vacation.  He's loving it HAHA of course.   Manda likewise is back at school for the first time last night.  It does her good to get out.  Camryn is fun and loving, and no problem at all.  Tonight I'll take her to Young Womens, and Wednesday night we (Roger, Gwen, Landon) are going to UVSC in Provo to watch the Wrestling All-Star Matches, where Josh Wilson will be competing.  Annette is planning on watching her (Camryn) while we go.  Thursday night Landon has a wrestling match, and then on Friday and Saturday we travel to Logan (Skyview HS for the Bobcat Brawls).  We are staying over night.  Zac has been working on the sleds (breakdowns of course). They (Roger, Landon, Zac and CJ) went on New Years Day up Woodland and there was 5 feet of new snow !!  That's too much to ride in and not get stuck. 

Uncle Lewis' funeral was very nice yesterday.  I sent the program in pouch mail.  I tried to get the recording on a new little voice recorder we bought, but the quality isn't good at all.  I was planning on zipping the file, and sending it to you so you could listen, but I don't know if it would be worth it. 

Who are you teaching English to?  Members, future missionaries,???  Someone asked me, and I couldn't tell them.  Did dad get well from his stomach upsets?? Did he have parasites??
Everyone we see asks about you, and were concerned about how the earthquake and tsunami affected you.  Have you be helping in the relief efforts at all??
Well, I better go for now.  I pray for you every night, and am so glad you are setting such a good example for our family.  I'm proud of both of you.  Take care and DO GOOD !!
Love Gwen

January 5, 2005  -  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Gwen and Family,

Our internet was not working properly and of course this happened Friday so it couldn't be fixed until Tuesday.  We are just fine.  Dad is still trying to get over the gomboo but he is much better.  No he didn't have any parasites that we are aware of but he took medicine for them just in case.  They say that this medicine will protect him for the next six months. 

We are so glad all of you had a good time on your snowmobiling trip to Pinedale and that no one was hurt.  Also glad that Amanda returned home safely from Arizona vacation.  Thanks for sending the recipe and for forwarding Aunt Pam's e-mail to us.  I made fried rice the other night and it was surely good.  Our rice cooker works really good. 

I'm sorry that Roger's vacation wasn't twice as long but someone has to work.  Tell Landon we think about his wrestling often and wish we could be there to see him.  Yes, it is okay to share our e-mails with whomever you think would be interested.  We have just sent quite a long e-mail to all of you.  Hope it isn't too boring but will answer some questions about how it is here in Cambodia and what we are experiencing. 

We check everyday for e-mails, so keep them coming.  We pray for you everyday and are so proud of the accomplishments you and your family are making.  We will try to write again soon but things are getting busy,

Love, Mom and Dad

January 7, 2005

Well, last night a bombshell hit me…………… I was called to be the Young Women’s President of our ward !  This was a total shock to me !!  I didn’t know that they were planning on reorganizing, and I feel soooooooooo inadequate.  I know thought, that if I do my best and give it my all, and stay close to the Lord and my Savior through prayer and daily scripture study, that they will make up the difference for me.  I know that with their help I could do ANYTHING !!  I know this !!  I was surprised and thinking “OH NO”, but did not panic in my heart, because our Bishop said he KNEW that I am who the Lord wanted in this position at this time.  The Bishop said it was made manifest unto him VERY STRONGLY that I was the one.  I guess the Bishop was praying about ANOTHER woman, because he knew that I have a lot on my plate right now, with Camryn, work, etc.  But the Lord let him know that it should be me !!  I hope I can live up to what I need to do.  You know I have been wanting to grow spiritually, but I could not do it on my own.  This will help me out, if I will but do my part, and I will be a better person for it.  I will try and do my best.  My first hurdle will be to choose two councilors and a secretary.  I will need the Lord’s help for this. (I chose Lynelle Rich, and Susan Wiscombe, and Gayla Durrant as my secretary)

We head up to the Bobcat Brawls today. Landon did well against Ben Lomond last night, pinning the kid in the 2nd period.

Zac got his JUNO email set up last night.  CJ was at work.

Manda is LOVING her schooling.  Camryn is so sweet.  She was kinda a pill at the wrestles last night, but it’s because she was tired.  She finally went to sleep.  I love her so much !! Manda talked with Jim yesterday and had a really good conversation.  He’s getting help from a psychologist AND a psychiatrist and will go on medication for his bi-polar disorder.  Camryn is now officially crawling !!!  watchout !!!  She does bye bye and patty cat (sometimes) too.  She is sooooooooooo  precious to our family. 

We found out that Kelly and Michelle are going to have a baby (girl?!?!?) in June.  We wish them the best. 


January 8, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Dear Mom and Dad
Quick note for you !!  Zac and CJ have a new email address.  It is: zacandcj@juno.com  Landon took fourth at the Bobcat Brawls these last two days.  He wrestled great !  He was up against a couple of tough TOUGH ones which he lost, and one that he SHOULDN'T have lost..............  but he did okay.  Morgan Varsity took 2nd place as a team, and that is fantastic !!!!  Me and Rog stayed up there over night at the Crystal Inn. 

Manda and Camryn stayed home, and had a good time, except Camryn woke up every hour last night.  Manda thinks it's because of the wind.  It blew and blew and BLEW last night.

Got your Dell rebates dad - deposited them !!

Zac and CJ and Shawn Prescott went up to Woodland snomobiling today.  Roads were terrible, and even going 35 MPH, the wind blew Zac's truck and he ended up jackknifing back and forth about 8 times, on that long stretch between Marion and Kamas.  He said it was WAY SCARY !!!

But everything turned out okay, and they didn't run of the road, and no cars were coming the other way.................  so see, there is BIG blessing #1 we have received since you gone on your mission, not to mention all the little ones...........

LOVE YA  DO GOOD !!  Take care

LOVE GWEN


January 9, 2005  -  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Gwen,
According to our calculations it won't be your birthday for another hour there in Morgan, but here you have already been a year older for thirteen hours.  We want you to know how important you are to us and what you have brought into our lives.  You have grown into a wonderful and thoughtful woman of whom we are very proud.  We wish we could be there to wish you Happy Birthday in person, but this will have to do.
All our love, Mom and Dad

January 9, 2005
Today is my 44th birthday !!   I went to church and it was very good.  Took Camryn, and she was a doll (a wiggly doll) and everyone loves her.  She is so cute and lovable.  I fasted and prayed, and feel good about my choices for councilors (SP?) and secretary.  I went through the ward directory and did my part, and then prayed, and thought, and fasted, and this morning I felt the Lord confirm my choices. I have chosen Susan Wiscombe as first counselor (over Mia Maids) and Lynelle Rich as second councilor (over Bee Hives) and Gayla Durrant as secretary.  I feel very good about these women, and I feel the Lord is happy too.  I hope they accept.  I’m not too worried or concerned about this position, and maybe I am being very naive, or don’t really feel the weight of the responsibilities that will soon be mine, but I KNOW that with the Lord’s help I can do anything !!  I just need to do my part.


January 12, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Dear Dad and Mom,
I'll get you Heaton's email address ASAP - I just barely got on the computer tonight (8pm my time - 10 a.m your time) and of course they are closed tonight, but I'll get on it first thing in the morning.  I usually check email in the mornings 5-7 a.m. my time, 7-9 p.m your time, but there wasn't a message there this morning when I checked, so I wasn't able to ask today, but I'll get on it tomorrow.

I'm glad to hear you are feeling better Dad, I am/was really worried about you, and have been praying for you really hard !! I hope things clear up soon !!

I don't know if you have heard about the horrible flooding in St. George.  They have had rain rain rain , and snow snow snow in the mountains, and with the Virgin River and Santa Clara Drainages, it is just horrible.  They have called a state of emergency, and about 6-12 homes have been destroyed, by falling into the river that used to be several hundred feet from the houses.  One man died, after being swept from his vehicle.  Sewers backed up, bridges, destroyed, etc.  It sounds like it's on both sides of St. George, i.e. Virgin (town evacuated), Washington, and west side, Santa Clara,  Gunlock (town marooned) no way in or out.  Town of Beaver Dam (evacuated).  It's a good thing you aren't there this year !!! Better to be in Cambodia, and the area where they have all the tsunami's and earthquakes !?!?!?!?! just kidding.

We've got rain here, no snow.  When we left Smithfield last Saturday afternoon the ground was bare, and when they woke up on Sunday, there was 17 inches of snow, and they had to cancel church.

Landon wrestles tomorrow night at Grantsville.  Our basketball team is still undefeated, and they had a really neat article in the Standard about Jim Wiscombe and his boy Derek, and Stan Nielsen, and his boy Reed, and the comparisons between this team, and the team of 74? that took state. 

Manda and Camryn are doing well.  Manda likes school, and gets 98-100 on her test, regularly.  Just a chip off of blocks, huh?? Camryn is crawling all over, and pulling herself up, and the other day she pulled herself up, over and OUT of her crib !!?!?!   Needless to say, we LOWERED it down to the bottom !!

Zac is all hyped up about building a det. garage behind his house.  I wish he would stop thinking up things to do, and just rest..............
CJ is just working, and working, and .......................sleeping (ha ha - she said to say that)

Rog and Landon are over to Kelly Wilson's wrestling now.  I'm just sitting here messing around on the computer.
Take care, I love you,

Dear Gwen - letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
You will never know how much it means to have your help and know that we can rely on you.  Hang in there with all the challenges you face.  We pray for you every day.
Love, Dad


Jan13, 2005   -  letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Dear Dad and Mom
I talked to that Cloward guy tonight at approx. 5p.m. my time.  They have no email at the doctor's office, strange huh?
But he said he would email you from his home.  I gave him your email address.
I hope he follows through.  If not, let me know and I'll try again !!
Let me know anyway, just so I know if he followed through.
It's 10:17 p.m. and we just got back from Grantsville.  Landon pinned his opponent.
Morgan won every match, except 189, which we had to forfeit because Nate Bird was sick.
We are doing sooooooooooooooooo good.
Take care, LOVE YA
LOVE GWEN

January 15, 2005
Well, we've got some sad news........Rawley was hit and killed by a car yesterday, Friday the 14th. Manda was and is very sad and upset about it, but it will be okay. 
We were all upset.  It was at noon, and I was home from lunch, and she had just got home from Ogden, and she let him out and he was playing with Zipper, and Zipper took off after a car, and it just happened.  Anita Kimber, the driver of the car that hit him was very sorry, and her two little girls who were in the car were really upset too.  Lan LaJeaunesse stopped, and he and Landon were able to lift him into the trunk of the car, and Manda and Landon took him over to the vet.  He lasted about an hour.  They figure massive head trauma, along with broken ribs, that must have punctured the liver and spleen.  He was pretty much out of it, and wasn't in pain we hope.  Johnny Wilkinson brought his backhose down, and we buried him down in the field by Spooky and the other cows and horses.  Our own private pet cemetery !!

Rog and the boys went snowmobiling today, and Gwen and the girls (Manda, CJ and Camryn) are going shopping, out to eat, and to a movie today.

January 16, 2005  -  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Sorry about Rawley, I shed tears a number of times when I was a boy over dogs that had died so I know how Amanda feels.

It sounds like you girls were going to have a good time.  What show did you see?  Have you seen “The Work and The Glory” yet?  You asked quite a while back about a Dickson history.  I put all the Dickson stuff in a box marked “Dickson.”  It is on the shelves in the shop area next to our sofa.  Just move the plastic back and pull the box out.  You will have to look through it to see what you can find.  Good Luck.

We are glad Landon is doing so well in wrestling.  Thanks for the obituary and funeral program, it was really nice.  We also got the notes from all of you.  If there is anything else we have neglected to answer or tell you just remind us.  We still have senior moments! 

All our love, Mom and Dad


January 16, 2005 -    letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Dear Mom and Dad,
Well, guess what?? I was just sustained as the Young Women's President of the 6th Ward.  I feel really good about this calling.  I love Young Women's and the leaders and young women there. I chose Susan Wiscombe and Lynelle Rich as my counselors, and Gayla Durrant as secretary.  They are women who I look up to, and would like to be more like (besides my own mom !) I  know that with Heavenly Father's help I will be able to fulfill my new responsibilities.  Thanks for being such good examples to me.  I love you both very much.  Please pray for  me so that I can do a good job.  Thanks !!
LOVE GWEN


January 20, 2005 -  letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia 
Dear Mom and Dad,
Haven't heard from you in a while>>>>>>>>>>>
How are things in Cambodia??  We are all fine here. 
We have had an exciting week wrestling (see article below)
This is the same kid that dumped Landon on his head last year and about broke his neck !!  You've never seen Rog so fired up, he came out of the stands and about out onto the mat,  and got into a shouting match with the South Summit Crowd !!  WOW !! 
We all lost a little bit of control I think !!  Go to Bear River tonight !! and Delta this weekend (Friday and Sat)  Weather is beautiful here in Morgan.  Manda has walked the walking path in the afternoons all week  (40, 50's)we are all well.
Love Gwen

Morgan Wrestlers Win on Senior Night


Morgan High honored nine senior wrestlers and their parents at the final home meet on Tuesday, January 18, prior to taking on the Wildcats of South Summit.  The coaches agree that this group of seniors has been instrumental in providing the leadership necessary for team and individual success.  In addition, they have been excellent role models and mentors to the younger wrestlers, which will ensure a strong program for years to come.
The senior honorees include Byron Andersen (130), Mike Clunas (152), Garret Durrant (125), Mike Eddy (112), Brett Hendershot (171), Stefan Palmer (103), Zach Taylor (119), Cody Watkins (140), and Mark Wright (215). 
While a hyperventilation kit and a bottle of Pepto Bismol may have been more appropriate, mothers were presented with roses as token of appreciation for parental support.
Once the ceremony was complete, the Trojans turned their attention to tangling with the Wildcats.  The South Summit wrestlers and their large contingent served notice early on in the match that they cared not whose special night it was.  Starting at the 152 weight classification, the Wildcats won four of first five matches plus a forfeit at 275 to race to a quick 30 points.  Brett Hendershot (171) kept things from getting totally out of hand by getting a crucial pin, leaving the score at 30-6 prior to the light weights taking the mat.
Thankfully, the light weights were the heavyweights in this meet as they came to the rescue.  Stefan Palmer (103), Mike Eddy (112), and Zach Taylor (119) turned back the green wave with dominating performances.  Garret Durrant (125) must have felt he was looking in the mirror as he went toe-to-toe with a South Summit wrestler that matched his build and ability (but not his toughness).  Durrant pulled out a nail-biting 8-4 decision.
The large raucous crowd was both tense and vocal as it became clear that Morgan’s only chance for victory was to sweep the final three matches, and at least one had to be by more than a decision.
Landon Rich (135) gave everything he had to hang on to a 5-3 decision.  An apparent cheap-shot body slam by South Summit after the final whistle threw gas on the burning emotions of coaches, wrestlers, and fans on both sides.  Landon shook it off, and after a collective calming deep breath, wrestling resumed.
Cody Watkins (140) stepped on to the mat and re-ignited the home crowd with a gutty, dominating effort resulting in a 15-0 tech fall.  Watkins’s performance set the stage for a winner-take-all final match.
With the scoreboard announcing a 36-34 score in favor of South Summit, Josh Wilson (145), arguably Morgan’s best wrestler, needed only to win to snatch the team victory away from South Summit.  Wilson did not disappoint.  Controlling the match from beginning to end, Wilson scored a major decision with an impressive 11-2 victory.
The Trojans can enjoy the satisfaction of a hard fought, well deserved win over a very worthy opponent.  It was fitting to have a special night on a special night.

Jan 20, 2005 -  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Sorry for the lack of mail to you.  We can tell you now that mom has been really sick.  The flu we think.  She could not teach the first 3 days this week but she is better now.  We have to hurry off to a meeting but will get back to you later today.  Glad to hear about Landon's success.  Love Dad

Jan 21, 2005  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Just a note to say hello.  First of all, mom has been sick.  Last Monday she woke up with the flu.  She didn't feel up to teaching her classes until Thursday.  She's still weak but seems to be over the sickness.  We're both at about 90%, give us one more week and we'll be back to normal.  Keep the e-mails coming, we check it each morning and each evening and sometimes in-between.  Attached is something about Som, our driver who is also second counselor in the mission presidency.  When you read it you will see why we have been so blessed to live in America.  Sorry, there's more to tell but I am such a poor typist and mom is lying down recuperating from six hours of zone-conference meetings.  Take care.  We love you all.  Dad

Jan 24, 2005 letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Gwen, I have discovered a lot about myself while on this mission --  some good and some bad.  I always blamed my inability to feel comfortable in a skirt to just having a big belly, but I find that my right hip is not the same as my left hip.  The result is my skirts hang uneven, like a couple of inches longer on the left side.  I even considered wearing my skirts with the zipper on the right side until seeing it had no affect.  I had never noticed this back home but here we have long mirrors and I can see myself from a distance.  It looks horrible.  I guess I will have to have some dresses made but would at least like to give Chhay Mom (seamstress) a pattern to go by.  Could you please find one of my dresses, either the dark blue with the light blue flowers or the florescent pink and orange.  Both of these have all the pleats across the bodice.  I believe they are hanging in the basement closet in the bedroom over home.  It doesn't matter which one you send.  You will have to send it through the mail like a package.  Just in a soft air mail envelope would be okay.  Check with the post office and see what would be the best way to send it so it won't take six months to get here.  I don't know what it will cost but hopefully not as much as a new wardrobe.  Just mail to:

Sister Veloy Dickson
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission
House 2B, Street 222, Off Norodom Blvd.
Phnom Penh, Cambodia 

Thanks again for doing so much for us.  Tell Landon we are so pleased with his wrestling this year.  Also, give Roger a high five.  We wish we could have been there to see him at the South Summit match.
Love, Mom



Jan 24, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Dear Mom
I got your dress mailed off this morning mom. I have NEVER noticed anything wrong with your skirt hems.  Are you sure the mirrors over there are working???
Also - where are your quilting frames, and quilting stuff (tacks, needles, etc.) I need to use them if that's okay.
I hope you are feeling much better.
Can you send some more journal entries??
We surely enjoyed Som's story.  He is about Roger's age.
Did you ever get my message about YW president?  You never commented on it, so I didn't know
if you got it.  I am pretty overwhelmed..............
We pray for you all the time, and love and appreciate you so much.
Aunt Maisie called, and said to tell you HI, and that they think about you all often, and pray for you too.
Aunt Barbara tried to write you an email letter, but it came back at her as undelivered. 
I don't know if she used the right address.

Maybe send her a quick note at bdwhittier@mycidco.com so she can just reply back to you directly.

Got to go for now.
Let me know on the quilting frames
LOVE GWEN 

January 24, 2005  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Gwen,  The quilting frames and stands are up in the rafters above the loft.
Mom thinks that the clamps and other thing are probably in the built-in
drawers in the downstairs bedroom at the house.  If you can't find them,
there are some squeeze clamps somewhere in the shop that might work.  As a
last resort you may need to buy some small c-clamps.  Good luck in finding
them.
Gwen, we did get your e-mail about YW president.  Mom and I are so proud of
you and know you will do great.  You have so many of your mother good
traits,  I believe the only things you got from me were weaknesses and your
love of math. (HAHA) Seriously, we pray for you and all of our family every time
we pray (which is pretty often) and we know that your love of those young
women will be felt by them and will help you be successful.  With mom being
sick, the journal has suffered.  She is completely recovered and will soon
get back at it.  Well, we are about to be off to our teaching assignments,
hope to hear from you soon.
Love, Dad


January 26, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Well, another uneventful day.

Work as usual, then home at 4 p.m. to watch Camryn.
She is crawling ALL over now, and pulling herself up to things.
Babbling, and saying BYE BYE and sometimes waving, and patty caking.
She's eating more people food too.

Landon is still wrestling, getting ready for Region next week.
He is on the Youth Court, where a select few youth get to act as court judges, attorneys, bailiffs, etc. for their peers who have broken the law.  An alternative to the regular juvenile court type of thing.  I would like to tell you what Sherie Wright had to say about Landon.  Quote:  Gwen, I can't tell you what a special kid you have.  He is gifted, he definitely has a gift.  Of all the kids that were there (about 5-7 kids) he was the ONLY one, and I mean the ONLY one who was comfortable and able to put them (the defendant and their parents) at ease.  He really has a way about him, and I’ve never ever seen anything like it. End quote

She just went on and on.....   Well you know we already know that Landon is special, but it's great to hear it from someone else !!  When I told Landon about it later, he put his arms around me and guess what he said?  He said, "Yup, you know what that's gonna help me with don't you mom?,  MY MISSION !!  

Doesn't that just make you so proud ?? I just thought you'd like to hear about that.

Zac is working on building a fence at his house.  The weather has been sooooooooooo good.  It's been quite foggy in the morning, but turns off and by afternoon before the sun goes down, it's quite nice.  Of course down below the inversion is getting terrible.

Well I better get going now !!

LOVE GWEN


Dear Landon,  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Your mother keeps us posted about you and your achievements.  We are so proud of you and the things you are doing. 

You are such a great grandson and you will make such a great missionary!!  You already know how to work.  Keep up the scripture study with your mom and at seminary and at church so that you will be truly prepared when you are called.  Also be careful, Satan is real and he does not want you to succeed.  He will work especially hard against anyone who can do his cause real damage.  Always choose good friends and never let yourself get into situations where you will be tempted to do wrong.  Keep doing your best.

Love, Grandpa and Grandma


January 29, 2005  letter from Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Dear Gwen and Family,

Thanks for your e-mails.  It’s great to hear about the family.  I wish we could be there to watch Camryn do all her little tricks.  I’ll bet your are really enjoying her.  We are so grateful that Zac is around to take care of things.  Dad isn’t worried at all when he knows it’s in Zac’s hands.  We dropped him an e-mail and hope he will get with you on his cost for fixing our shower .  We don’t expect him to do everything for free. 

Gwen we are so tickled about your new calling and sorry we didn't get right back to you.  You will do a great job.  You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers always.  It sounds like you have some good assistants or I should say counselors to help you.  I know you love the girls and I'm sure they love you.  Were you able to find everything you needed for the quilting - frames, pins, clamps, needles, etc.? 

We heard that they had some avalanches back in Utah.  Was anyone hurt?  How is your family doing snowmobiling?  Tell Zac, Roger and Landon to be careful.  We don’t want anything happening to them.

We are so glad Landon is doing well in wrestling and wish him good luck at Region.  We’ll be rooting for him here in Cambodia.  We are so pleased about the other activities he is involved in.  He’s just a chip off the block.  You and Roger have done a really good job and we are proud of all of you.  Tell Landon to keep up the good work and continue thinking the way he is thinking now and he’ll make a terrific missionary.

Dad noticed that Juno is still billing us.  They were suppose to put us on hold for 18 months.  Would you check on it and if there is any problem just cancel our subscription or whatever you call it.

I went shopping today and picked up some pretty lavender material for a new dress.  We are going over to the Mission Home next Monday morning and I will check then to see if the dress has arrived.  No matter how I stand to look in the mirror, I’m still lopsided.  It must be me and not the mirror.

We bought us a little electric oven today.  I hope it works okay on casseroles because that is what we bought it for.  If you get time could you send me the recipe for Turketti, chicken and rice casserole, etc?  They should be in my green recipe box.  It’s starting to get hotter now, so I don’t know how much cooking I will be doing or how much the little oven will heat up the kitchen.  I just hate to think about March, April, May and June. 

Take care of yourselves.  We love you and wish you the best.

Love, Mom and Dad

1/29/05

January 29, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia

Guess what? CJ is in the hospital this morning (Jan 29) getting her appendix out !!
She woke up at about 4 a.m., with horrible pain in her lower right stomach.
After suffering greatly for an hour, Zac took her to the emergency room and
ultrasounds and bloodwork revealed that it was her appendix.  We are waiting
to hear how the operation went (it should be a scope) at this time.

The guys haven't been doing much snowmobiling, and haven't had any trouble
with avalanches.  We got a new 700 RMK for Landon to use, and his old
one 550 will go to Manda to use.  But as usual, wrestling puts a cramp in the
plans...............but we love wrestling !!!!

A couple of things.........

I need your SSN# and VISA # that you used for JUNO billing in order to cancel.

Also, refresh my memory.  Where is the green recipe box?  Did you give it to me??
I am having early onset of Alzheimer.

LOVE you both !!  Please email Mark and reassure him of your health.  He called me
in a panic this morning after reading your latest journal email, stating that dad was too
sick and weak to drive to somewhere................. and then Richard Brown (the alarmist !!)
saw him this morning, and asked how is your DAD doing?!?!?! I heard he was really
sick................. and so Mark called me and was freaked out.............. and wanted to know
just HOW SICK WERE YOU.....................and I told him I thought you were okay and getting
better.  Please let him know ASAP so he can quit worrying.  I think he has a bit of Grandma Dickson
in him also..............HAHAHA

LOVE YA,  Gwen

See you later :)
Gwen

1/31/05
Dear Roger,

I love you sooooooooooooo much.
I just wanted to tell you how glad I am that you are my husband.  You are a good husband, and a good father.  I know that it is hard with your job, but you are so good about leaving it at work.  When I don’t ask much about it, it is because I know that you don’t like to talk about it.  But I want you to know that I pray for you, and ask Heavenly Father to help you with the pressure you are under.  Love Gwen


January 31, 2005 - letter to Mom and Dad on their mission in Cambodia
Dear Mom and Dad,
CJ is doing fine.  The operation went well, and they did the scope on her on Saturday about 1 p.m.  She came home on Sunday at about 1 p.m. 
How are you both feeling now?  I hope you are doing better.  Roger and Landon are over at Kelly's wrestling.  I'm just working on my personal progress stuff for Young Women. 

Mom, what are some important attributes that you think a mother should have?jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj
Please get back to me on this

I LOVE YOU !!  DO GOOD !! Love Gwen


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October 2004

Monday, October 04, 2004
I’ve got to keep writing more often than this.  Something troubling has happened.  Manda called last night in tears.  She and Jim are splitting up.  Apparently he has been drinking quite a bit and she can’t take it any more.  We did not know of any of this !!  We are so sad for them.  Manda is pretty heartsick over this.  It will be trying days ahead, as she tries to work things out.  Right now she is pretty set on coming back home to Morgan.  She will have to sell her house and quit her job.  She and Camryn will live with us until she can get on her feet.  She is very upset and confused.  I have prayed and prayed for her, and this hard time she is going through. 

I feel so down, and sad.  Sometimes it seems there is no peace.  I know my Heavenly Father is always there for me.  I pray that Manda will come to know that he is there for her too, and he loves her, and our Savior died for HER, and took upon him HER sins, and if she will but turn to them, she will feel their peace.

Tuesday, October 05, 2004
I am fasting today.  I know that even though Manda is not close to Heavenly Father, I have faith that if I fast and pray for her, that HE will see that she makes the right decision.  She is struggling right now to make that decision.  Pause.......  She just called, 7:20 a.m.,  and said that she had decided to come home.  Does she want to leave Arizona, her job, and her home?  No – but it is doing what is best for Camryn.  And she’s most important.  These are Manda’s words.  

I will still fast and pray throughout the day, so that she might have a confirmation and peace of mind that this is the right decision.  I feel bad for Jim. Hopefully this will wake him up and he can get some help, so that he can be a good dad to his daughter, albeit a long distance dad. 

Today was a very peaceful day for me.  I fasted all day long, prayed quite a bit, and felt humble and meek and felt like my fast meant something, and helped someone, my daughter Manda.  This is the first time I have ever done this the RIGHT way.  I know it made a difference.  She seemed a lot more calm today, and had made up her mind firmly to come home to Utah.  I know this will be VERY hard.  I pray for the strength, and patience, and love that it will take – for ALL OF US. 

Wednesday, October 13, 2004
Well, this past weeks have been VERY exhausting.  I flew down to Arizona last Wednesday morning, and we got back on Monday about 1 p.m.  I am so glad I could be there for Manda.  We worked together, getting her all packed and boxed up, over the course of Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and then Roger, Zac, CJ and Landon came down (drove the truck and trailer) on Sunday.  We loaded everything up, and turned around and headed HOME !!  It has been an emotional week for everyone, especially Mandy.  

Monday, October 18, 2004
Well, last week has gone good for the most part.  Manda and Camryn are settling in, and it is very enjoyable.  Manda is SUCH a help around the house.  Camryn is SUCH a sweet baby, and we are glad to have them here.  I am so glad Manda had the courage to make this hard decision, to get her and Camryn out of an abusive situation.  I hope Manda knows now that her family is ALWAYS there for her, and I hope she will not let herself get in another situation like this.  I wish so badly that she would turn to Heavenly Father for help.  It would make things SO much easier.  Oh well, I will keep praying and praying and lead by example, and maybe she will see the light.  We have slacked off on our family prayer at night, and also reading in the morning.  I need to get back on track !!!
Landon played another awesome JV football game last week against Grantsville.  He cut his hand and had to have 6 stitches.  Zac finished up pouring his cement – it sure looks GREAT.  Landon also went to the Girl’s Dance with Chelsie Ross.  They went with a bunch of kids, and had a great time, and dressed as characters from the movie Grease.

Sunday, October 24, 2004
Well another week passed, and Manda and Camryn are even MORE settled.  It is nice having them here.  I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad Manda had the courage to change her life and Camryn’s also.  Manda’s house should close (sell) this week.  And she should receive the information for a job which she can do from home, while she is going to school.  She found out about CCI – a place where she will go to Medical Coding school.  She will either start in November or December.  She will go for 4 nights a week from 5-10.  We will watch the babe.  It will work out just fine. 

Zac and CJ went deer hunting yesterday, and they didn’t see anything worth shooting.  Also, he is coming up today to work on tiling the kitchen in the basement.  Me and Manda and Camryn went to Ogden yesterday and got the cabinets for the kitchen downstairs.   Did I mention that Zac “found” a buried cesspool or septic tank in his back yard?  Now he has to worry about digging it up or filling it up !?!?

Landon played good in the JV game this past week against Ben Lomond, and got to play quite a bit of Varsity too.  They won both games.  They play this Friday at home against Uintah High School for an inter region playoff.   Landon was supposed to get up this morning and go to a Priesthood meeting at 7 a.m.  He slept in, didn’t set him alarm, and I forgot to set mine too.    I wish he cared more about this……….. me too, I should have been more on the ball.

Roger is hating work more than ever.  He had to work yesterday, because of a problem with a guy not  coming back from a semi run to Elko Nevada.  They had the police out looking for him, and everything, and apparently he was back in Salt Lake, checked into a clinic??  For Drugs, depression, we don’t know.  It’s good he isn’t DEAD, but he had a lot of concern and worry and work expended in his behalf by many employees at the bakery.

Thursday, October 28, 2004
Well we got the tile all layed downstairs, and will grout it tonight (maybe).  Zac is such a great helper.  Amanda and Camryn are settling in, and Camryn is becoming quite vocal.  She has so much attention showered on her, that when she’s NOT the center of attention, she let you know!!  Manda brought her over to a courthouse luncheon yesterday, dressed as a bumble bee, and she was SOOOOOOOOOOOoo cute!!!

Mom is fixing supper for us tonight.  There time is quickly passing as they get ready to go on their mission.

Landon is getting ready for the BIG game tomorrow night with Uintah High School.  This is the first round of the playoffs. 

Roger is disappointed as his Cardinals got SWEPT by the Boston Red Sox in the World Series. 

Tomorrow morning at 9 am we are taking a picture of the wrestlers for a poster which I have put together to put in businesses around town !!

November

Monday, November 01, 2004 - Zac and CJ are going to have a baby !!  She is only 4 weeks along, and is having some problems.  She will find out today if everything is okay. We are happy for them and hope that everything is okay.

Morgan Football won against Uintah.  Landon didn’t get to play as much as Rog thinks he should, but Landon doesn’t seem to mind.

We went down to UVSC to see the girl’s volleyball team play Saturday night, and they lost and only took 2nd place. This was a shocker !! 

Zac and I got the tile grouted yesterday, and it is looking GREAT !!

November 9, 2004 - Tuesday morning.  I painted the wall red this morning.  Looks like it will need another coat before we can put up the cupboards.  Dang.  Getting a new washer and dryer today.  Football is over, and wrestling is coming up !!  We lost the game last Saturday to Dixie.  Today Manda starts school at CCI.  Hope all goes well.  Last night though, CJ had a miscarriage.  I haven’t yet heard this morning how she is doing, but our thoughts and prayers are with them.   They (Zac and CJ) are obviously down about this.  It is sad to see your kids go through sad times.  Landon has started wrestling practice, and working out.  It’s exciting to change seasons in sports.  I got my office rearranged, and it looks great !! 

Thursday, November 11, 2004 - Didn’t have to work today.  Cleaned the house, and I’m busy getting all of my files gone through !  Manda has inspired me !!  I’m throwing ALOT of stuff away. I hope I won’t need it later !!  Went down today with Manda and got Camryn’s pictures taken at Kiddie Kandids.  She sure is cute.  One of the cutest things she does is suck her fingers when you are feeding her vegetables and fruits.  She sticks them in her mouth between bites, and then when she pulls them out, she KNOWS she wants to pull them out, and her little arm does the work, but she doesn’t know to STOP sucking, and so there is this big “POP” when they pop out.  It is SOOOOOOOOOOO funny !!!  She has brought so much joy into our home.  Manda is going to school now, and will be starting work.  Life goes on.  We’re happy !!

December 
Thursday, December 02, 2004 - So much is going on and I need to take more time to write.  We had a nice Thanksgiving, and took family pictures, and they look great !! We got the tree up.  Everyone is fine.  Manda decided not to work, and just go to school, and I think this is right.  She has started seeing a therapist to help her work out her feelings.   Zac is having trouble with his little car.  CJ is still going to work and school.  Landon wrestled his first matches last week and won both of them. Tonight he goes up against Brad Gustafson from Tooele, and he is nervous.  I have been going to Park City to meetings yesterday and I’ll go today.  Roger is still hating his work so much, but like a trooper he goes on…..

Mom and Dad went into the MTC a few days  ago (Monday) and she called tonight and said they are keeping really really busy, and are doing well.  Camryn is such a sweetheart, and I enjoy tending her at night.  Tonight we’ll take her to her FIRST wrestling match !!  Hope all goes well !!

Monday, December 06, 2004
Well, the start of another week.  Camryn was GREAT at the wrestling match last week.  She looked so cute in her little shirt !!  Landon lost against Gustafson.  Hopefully he will get over this mental block, and be able to beat him at Region later in the season.  At the Evanston Invitation this past weekend, he won 4 out of 6 matches, losing 2 times to a kid from Laramie Wyoming.  John Nicholas.  Both matches were REALLY exciting, and Landon wrestled really good, but just came up a little short.  He pretty much dominated the other matches, winning over kids from Evanston, and Jackson Hole, and I can’t remember the others.  He got beat up pretty good, getting a black eye, and a torn up lip.  

Haven’t seen Zac this weekend.  I know he was working on putting a baseball on Landon’s gear shift to give to him for Christmas.  I’ve got to get some Xmas shopping done.  It will have to be this Saturday, as Landon only has matches on Thursday and Friday.  Hopefully I can get to the gym everyday this week.  I’ve got to watch my weight.  I gained 1 pound 2 weeks ago, and last week, maintained.  I’m afraid I’ve either gained, or stayed the same this week (I weigh tomorrow). ( I gained 1 pound) I’ve got to get my butt in gear.  Today a guy (appraiser) from Provo is coming up to help me with Holcim……  Well, I better get my butt in gear and get going for the day.  It’s 4:27 a.m.   

Friday, December 10, 2004 - All it has done the past few days is RAIN RAIN RAIN.  Roger goes to work as usual and hates his work as usual too.  The thing is, he doesn’t bring it home with him and make our lives miserable.  I think both of us do a great job in leaving work AT WORK !!  I have been working on the Holcim appraisal this past week, and have almost gotten it wound up.  Manda is going to school as usual, and we have been watching the babe.  She is so precious.  She got really sick on Monday night, and on Tuesday Manda took her to the doctor, and he said she might have the Roto Virus, which causes vomiting, diarrhea and dehydration.  She seems back to normal now.  She is so sweet, and has us all wrapped around her little finger.  Landon had a match last night against North Summit.  He pinned the poor kid handily.  Today we head to Union High School ( 2 ½ hours away) and watch him compete in the Union Duels.  He should wrestle 4 times.  We’ll probably get home in the wee hours of the morning tomorrow.  (We actually got home at a decent hour (10-11 p.m.)  Landon won 1st place in his weight (135) and it was the sweetest!!! Match he’s ever won.  The kid was sooooooooo cocky, and Landon wiped the mat with him!)  

Mom and Dad should be back in town tonight, from the MTC.  I haven’t talked to her since last Wednesday (two days after they got in).  It will be interesting and inspirational to hear of their experiences and accomplishments.  They will stay at Mark’s, and leave for Cambodia on Monday morning. 

Friday, December 17, 2004 - Well, mom and dad left for Cambodia, and arrived safely per one email I received yesterday morning.  There luggage however had some problems, and I’m not sure if they have that yet.  Cambodia is 14 hours AHEAD of us.  So now when it’s 5:34 a.m here, it’s about 7:30 p.m. there.  Roger has been in Twin Falls for the past 3 days.  He’ll get home today, just in time for the Weber Duels.

Sunday, December 19, 2004 - letter from Mom and Dad on their mission.

Dear Family,
Well we have had quite an adventure since arriving.  The trip was uneventful but when we arrived at Phnom Penh our luggage didn’t.  Our carry-on bags had an extra shirt and an extra pair of garments for your mom and me.  We were put up at the Mission Home for the next two nights.  These are really luxurious accommodations; all the floors are either tile or wood.   Even though our luggage had not arrived we were not comfortable staying there so we moved into our apartment, which is very nice but not luxurious. 

Fortunately our luggage caught up with us Friday night so we are now settled in (we don’t know where it was, only that it got left behind on one of our four plane transfers).  We spent most of Saturday cleaning the apartment.  Every thing was covered with a layer of dust as fine as talcum powder.  It took us the whole day to get it clean.  Yes, I worked right along with Mom to get the job done.  Since I don’t type, I’ll have mom do all of the letter writing including finishing this.  She will tell about what we have been doing.

We attended one of the Branches (2nd) Sunday.  It was all in Cambodian (Khmae pronounced Kah-my) and was interesting to see how things were done.  The people here seem to look more like people from India instead of Oriental.  There were a lot of young people in the Branch and we saw the cutest little baby girl.  Her mother had her dressed in a red Santa hat with white fringe and tassel. 

Monday:  We had our first day of teaching and we each have two classes.  It’s hard to tell how many are actually in the class as quite a few didn’t show up.  I guess they thought there was no school this week.  We both felt very good about the classes, probably because we speak better English than the students.  They love to sing Jingle Bells.  We finally got our Internet hooked up this afternoon and got the returned e-mail from Gwen.  We attended a musical Christmas sing-a-long program this evening at the big new church that was on the cover of the Church News in Feb.  What a beautiful building.  No this is not where we do our teaching like we had thought.

The traffic here is unbelievable.  Cars, motos (small motor bikes), bicycles, gong bees, etc. driving everywhere and anywhere.  Everyone just seems to move over and accommodate whatever happens.  The best explanation is it looks like water running through rocks, with the rocks moving around.  We’ll send you some pictures later.  We’re glad Landon isn’t over here testing his skills at driving.

The weather is dry and hot, but not terribly hot.  Thank goodness it’s not the hot time of the year.  Right now at 8:20 PM it is 82.4 degrees outside.  Thursday, the day after we arrived, we left Phnom Penh and drove two hours southeast to a Vietnamese village were we distributed powdered milk and sacks of clothes from the Humanitarian Center to about 130 families.  These families live in huts on stilts because the river floods periodically.  Underneath the huts are animals (pigs, chickens, etc.).  The bigger animals are tethered to a stake with a rope around their foot.  Even though they live under these conditions, the children were all clean and looked healthy.  One of the little girls received red and white ski bibs, which she immediately put on even though it was very hot.  To reach this village we had to ferry our van across a river. 

So far we have both been well and haven’t caught the gomboo.  We have been very careful and only drink bottled water.  We wash our dishes and then rinse them in water with Clorox added.  What a chore it is to brush our teeth.  It is so easy to forget and use the tap water like we do at home.  The food prices are about the same except for boxed cereals.  The kind in America run about $4-$5 for a small box and the peanut butter is $5.60 for about a pint size bottle.  The bananas are a dark green but they are ripe.  If you wait until they turn yellow they are spoiled.

The Mission Home is located in a ritzy neighborhood and is surrounded by a number of embassies (U.S., Indonesian, Singapore, Australia, and Canada) and less than a quarter mile from the royal palace.  All of these big places are behind locked gates with guards.  They also have high fences around them.  In fact most of the homes, etc. are protected the same way, as is our apartment building.  Anything that is left outside, walks away.  People think that if something is outside, no one wants it and they can have it.  The Learning Center is also behind a locked gate.  It houses two branches and the Learning Center, which is on the 4th floor.  No elevator and we haven’t counted the steep steps that lead to it yet.  We are so glad it is air conditioned.

We will sign off now.  We miss you.  Oh, by the way, the big picture of the family made it here in perfect condition.  Thanks again.  Let us know what is going on back home.

Love, Grandma and Grandpa Dickson
P. S.   Our new E-Mail address is vldickson@camnet.com.kh .

Tuesday, December 21, 2004 - my letter to Mom and Dad
It was good to hear from you !!  The picture was great.  I don't know how long it took to send, but hopefully you'll be able to send some more.  Do you have to pay by the minute (internet) or is it unlimited?  Maybe you could write all your messages, and just hit send before you go to bed?
Everything is fine here.  We are ready for Christmas.  Landon did REALLY well at wrestling last week.  He took 2nd place in the Weber Duels, losing only to a  2 time state champion from Star Valley Wyoming. (Sondergroth).  Last year this kid wiped him all over the mat, and this year, Landon hung right with him, and even had him on his back and was ahead for a little bit, and only ended up losing by 2-3 points. It was the happiest loss ever, if you know what I mean.  Manda is finishing up a "section" at school, and will start on another right after the holiday.  She has all next week off.  She and Camryn head out  for Arizona on Christmas morning, and will get back on Tuesday.  We also will head for Pinedale and will get back Tuesday also.  CJ passed her Pharmacy Tech exam that she took last month, and just found out she passed yesterday.  We are really proud of her.   Roger was in Twin Falls for 2-3 days last week.  Still loving it (NOT)!  I'm still working hard (haha).  Today is the day they finally approve the budget, and we'll know for sure if we get our raises for next year.  Sure hope so !! Take care, we love you and are praying for you.  Do good.
Love Gwen

December 22, 2004 -  We got our raises approved last night !!  YA HOO  that will mean a $10,000 raise for me !!  That will be put away for Landon’s mission and college.   Today is our county party at noon.  Got all the plates of goodies handed out last night, and got our money figured, and this morning I cleaned off the filing cabinet !!  I’m on  roll……………..

Received this letter from Mom on December 22, 2004

We received your e-mail so it looks like everything is working well between our computers.  We were so glad to hear that Landon is doing so well in wrestling.  Tell him to keep up the good work and we will even cheer for him here in Cambodia.  We received an e-mail from Zac and CJ today but couldn’t acknowledge that we had received it because all there was for the e-mail address was:  zacandcj  (could you get us their complete e-mail address).

School is going well but we still need to fine tune our lessons and try to decide just how much to cover each day so that we accomplish what we need to.  Our classes are an hour long and start at 10:30 A.M. and 1:00 P.M.  I am teaching Level 2 and Dad is teaching Level 3.  The students are special, some more advanced and outgoing than others.  Yesterday after classes four young men (ages 20 to 24) stayed after classes and wanted to talk to me.  They wanted to know where I came from, a little about my family, what I thought about Cambodia and coming here, and just anything and everything they could think of.  They are a very polite, loving and friendly people.

We have been invited to all of the Branches’ Christmas parties during the next 7 or 8 days, so will be kept busy celebrating Christmas in that way.  There are a few Christmas trees around – a big one at the Mission Home and a few at the big hotels who cater to tourists, also a few Christmas decorations.  Since this is a Christian holiday it is not celebrated here by the Buddhist religion.  We will close the school down after today for a week though.

We just received information for those corresponding with missionaries from the Office of the Presiding Bishopric about POUCH mail service.  All POUCH mail should be addressed the way we told you - to Salt Lake City with your name and complete return address.  Items sent in the POUCH should be limited to the following:  letters and documents (paper copies of photographs are classified as documents). Anything else is restricted, however they may be sent through the U.S. Post Office.  Just address them to the following address.  They will be mailed to the Post Office here in Phnom Penh and someone from the Mission Home will pick it up, as there is no postal delivery.  Maybe we will be able to send some pictures home or put them on a disk and send them to you.

Elder and Sister W. L. Dickson
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission
House 2B, Street 222, off Norodom Blvd.
Phnom Penh, Cambodia

Will end for now.  We love you and pray for you all the time.  Give Camryn a tight love for us and tell Amanda to be careful on her trip to Arizona.

MERRY CHRISTMAS – have fun snowmobiling.
X O X O X O   Grandma and Grandpa Dickson

December 31, 2004 - Last day of the year………….  We had a fun time at Pinedale.  Weather was okay for the most part.  Manda did not have a good time in AZ.  Camryn was out of her element, and was onry, teething?   Maybe………..  Amanda didn’t take Camryn to see Jim or his family, because of Jim’s last tirade.   There was a bad earthquake and tsunami over by Thailand, India, etc. and Thailand is next to Cambodia, but mom and dad didn’t even know it had happened.  Landon and Chelsie have broken up, he doesn’t seem to be too upset about it.  Apparently her parents want her dating more??  Well…..   they didn’t seen to be “dating” that much, but I guess they WERE known as an exclusive item, so it is for the best.  I wish he would hang out with a BUNCH of different girls and boys and have fun with all of them, and not be “STUCK” with one girl.  He is going up to Dwight Gailey’s “barn” tonight for New Years for a party.  He sure likes his letterman’s jacket and MP3 player he got for Christmas.  Roger got a new coat, and I got a gift certificate to Meier and Frank, and a new watch (charm) from Manda, and a candle holder from Landon, and a gift certificate to Deseret Book from CJ and Zac.  It was a good Christmas. 


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