Sunday, December 1, 2002

December 2002

December
Assessor Meetings in Salt Lake all of the first week
13 – Court with Jeffrey Purcell (guy who hit Zac and CJ)
20 – county Xmas party
21 – Weber Duals, Rich Christmas party, Snowmobile Friends Christmas party
22 - Talk in Church

December 16, 2002 - Letter to Kyle Kimbal on his mission
Dear Kyle,
It was great to get your Christmas letter.  Sounds like things are going well.  We are proud of you, and the work you are doing.  Getting the message of Heavenly Father and our Savior’s plan to everyone is so important. 

We’ve enclosed a couple of videos, and would like you to give them to the family (mom and 6 kids) that you are teaching.  Wish them a Merry Christmas from your “second family” in Morgan. 

Zac will probably write before Christmas.  He’s been pretty “whooped” on CJ.  This may be the REAL thing?!?!?!  Don’t know what he’ll tell you………….  She’s even got him to sacrament meeting the past two weeks – amazing.  It’s her birthday today, and he is taking her to “The Testament” film at the Joseph Smith Building, and also to “The Roof” restaurant, and then to see the lights at Temple Square.  Well enough of that, better not tell all of his secrets.

Take care, and keep on doing the work with a purpose.  It’s amazing how Heavenly Father blesses us with his spirit, when we seek him with real intent.

Love the Rich’s
Roger, Gwen, Zac, Landon



December 22 – talk in church

Dear Brother’s and Sisters, I’m grateful to be here today.  I apologize for my voice and cold, and hope that you will bear with me.  I’ve known for 6 weeks, 3 days and about 12 hours of this assignment, and believe me, I didn’t want to add another week.  The Bishop told me he felt that I should talk today, and I believe that is true, and I’m grateful for the opportunity.  I’ll get into the reasons for that in a few minutes, but first the Bishop has asked that I tell you all a little about myself and our family.  I know a lot of you are acquainted with our family, but there may be a few who don’t know us, and so I’ll give you a quick overview.  I’ve lived in Morgan all of my life, my parents are Lee and Veloy Dickson who live in Morgan City, and my husband, Roger’s parents are Ben and LuAnn Rich who live right here in this ward.  Roger and I have been married for 25 years.  He’s a great husband and father and I love him very much.  My dad says he deserves a gold star in heaven, for putting up with me.  Roger works for Wonder Bread, and has to work on Sundays, and so you won’t see him here very often, but we’ll see what we can do about getting him here on his vacation days throughout the year.  We have four children.  Our first little girl Ambure, was killed in a car accident at 10 months of age.  The 24th anniversary of her death is a week from tomorrow.  We are so grateful for our Heavenly Father’s plan, and know that families are forever, and that is we live that way we should, that we will have the opportunity to be with her again.  Our second girl is Amanda.  Amanda is 22, and lives in Mesa Arizona.  She’s single, and works for AT&T, loves her job, and loves the climate.  While we miss her, and wish she were closer, we realize that she is very happy in Arizona and this is a good place for her.  We get to see her a couple of times a year, and talk on the phone every few days.  Zac is our oldest son.  Zac just turned 21, and you’ll remember that he was in a serious car accident 3 months ago.  He is recovering, and seems almost brand new.  Yesterday, he went snowmobiling for the first time this season, and was able to throw his sled around without too much trouble, so he’s one happy guy. Anyone that knows anything about Zac, will tell you what a hard worker he is.  From the time he was 2-3 years of age, he would spend an entire day with his dad out in the field, or helping to get our winter supply of wood, or what ever job there was to do.   Landon Lee is our caboose.  Everyone knows Landon.  He’s a great kid, and brightens up our family.  It seems he has the best qualities of ALL of us, Roger, myself, and Manda, and Zac.  I don’t know what we’d do without him.  I especially enjoy his company at church on Sunday’s.  He never complains, and is always willing to do whatever is asked. 

            Well, back to the reason I’m here today.  As I said, the Bishop felt I should talk, and told me to tell you what is in my heart.  As I approached this assignment, I wanted to do a good job, and know I had to be closer to my Heavenly Father in order to do this.  So I decided I would try an experiment.  I began reading the scriptures daily.  I never would have believed it, but I can’t tell you the change that has come into my life in these few short weeks. A few days ago I was reading Sister Sheri Dew’s book, “No Doubt About It”, and  was directed a verse in Alma 32, chapter 27, which states: 

But behold, if ye will awake and arouse your faculties, even to an experiment upon my words, and exercise a particle of faith, yea, even if ye can no more than desire to believe, let this desire work in you, even until ye believe in a manner that ye can give place for a portion of my words. 

My experiment was actually in the scriptures!  I couldn’t believe it – but what I do know is that I had a desire, and my Heavenly Father has helped that desire grow, and I can’t explain in words, how wonderful it has been to have the Holy Ghost with me, like he has never been before, just because I have been praying and reading the scriptures daily!  I never would have believed it, except that I have experienced it for my self, and I am grateful to our Bishop for this assignment that put me on the right track.  I have wondered if I was the only one who wasn’t reading the scriptures daily.  You know we have been told we should by the prophet, and our teachers, and I have always had such a hard time with this.  I love to read, and will read novels right and left, but I never could get into the scriptures.  I asked a good friend who is very active in the church, if she thought that I was the only person who hadn’t been reading the scriptures, or if she thought that a majority of people had this problem. She said that she thought that there were probably quite a few who had a hard time with this too.  As I look our over the audience today, and there are so many of you who are so strong in the gospel, and I admire you so much, and I feel I am somewhat preaching to the choir about this subject, but maybe there is someone who has had a hard time like I have, and if so, I would even hope that you would just put the Lord to the test, and see if what he promises you isn’t true.  It will be life changing.  I know it isn’t easy finding the time, or even the desire at first.  It took our Bishop’s request to talk to spur me into action. Our good friends, Mark and Janene Walker, get up every morning with their family at 6:45, and Janene puts on the griddle, and fixes pancakes, and eggs, and they take turns reading scriptures around the island bar while she’s fixing breakfast.  Landon and I aren’t so fancy, but we’ve found something that works for us !! At 6 in the morning we are the only ones in our house, Roger and Zac having already left for work, but we’ll get out the Cocoa Puffs, and a couple of bowls, and between mouthfuls of food, we’ve been reading  and discussing the Doctrine and Covenants out loud, as this is the subject Landon has been studying in Seminary this year.  We have been regular at this, and it has made a difference in our lives.  Like I said, I never would have believed that the change would be so measureable, but it is !!  Roger asked me a couple of weeks ago, what had gotten into me?  And I told him, I’ve been praying morning and night, and reading the scriptures, and I can’t believe how good it makes me feel.  He said to keep it up !!  He liked it !!  Some days I find myself just walking around with a goofy grin on my face, and a bounce in my step, and I can’t believe how good I feel.  It is unbelievable. 

I know my message to you today has not been a Christmas Story, but I felt I needed to tell you of my experience.  My Father, Heavenly Father, and my Savior, my brother has poured out their love upon me, and I wish everyone could feel what I have felt these past few weeks, and this past year.  I would like to thank again, Pacome, for his invitation to Landon to come back to church, and for Landon to drag me along.  It  was a hard thing, but you have all been so welcoming to us.  I appreciate Lauri’s and Tami, and Sherry and their confidence in asking me to join them in the Young Women program.  I love them, and I love the girls, and I have learned so much this past year.  I know my Heavenly Father loves me, and I know that it is only through our brother Jesus Christ that we can return to him.  I love them both so much for the sacrifice they made for me personally.  I know each one of us individually has come to this knowledge, and while I am new at this, I can tell you that reading of our Father in Heaven, and our Savior in the scriptures will help us to know them.  They are always there for us, but we are the ones who need to reach out to them, both through daily prayer, and by searching their words to us through the scriptures. 









Tuesday, October 1, 2002

October and November 2002

October
Zac to doctor for 2-3 weeks every Tuesday
11 – Court Jeff Purcell ( guy who hit Zac's car)
24 – Vegas PBR


Gwen wrote this article for the Morgan county News

Lee Dickson was born to Reed and Anona Dickson, in Richville, on the 29th of July, 1937.  As a kid he helped on the farm with his brother Norris Dickson, and sisters, Barbara Whittier, Maisie Whitaker, and Dixie Porter.  He graduated from Morgan High School in 1955, where he served as Studentbody President.  That summer he worked on the canal that was being built through the mountains to the lower valley, and for several summers after that he worked at Swifts while attending college the rest of the year. 

In 1956 he married Veloy Tonks (of Round Valley) in the Salt Lake Temple.  Lee attended Weber State and the University of Utah, where he received his B.S., M.S. and PhD.  He began his teaching career at Weber State, and taught for many years, before retiring in 1997.  He was, and is an excellent teacher, and many of his students remember him fondly.  His only regret is not being able to get through his oldest daughter’s head, the finer points of math; a subject he loved (as much as she hated it). 

Lee and Veloy have 3 living children; Gwen (Roger) Rich, Erika (Aaron) Bettinson, and Mark (Carrie) Dickson.  A son, Lance, died at birth, and a daughter, Tonya, was killed in an automobile accident when she was 17 years old.  Eleven grandchildren round out the family, and they, along with their parents know that “Grandpa can fix anything”.
 
Gardening has always been a hobby, and Lee has had a beautiful prize-winning garden every year;  regrettably this is a trait that has not been passed on to his children.  Maybe it was slaving away in the garden as kids (ha-ha); or more likely, it’s knowing that Dad and Mom will always have produce to share.

Lee is active in church, and has served in the bishopric, as Bishop of the 2nd ward, and counselor in the Stake Presidency under two different Stake Presidents.  For the past 3 ½ years, he and Veloy have been serving as ordinance workers in the Ogden Temple, a calling they love and enjoy. They look forward to serving a mission, hopefully in the near future.  

For the last three years, Lee and Veloy have been fixing up a parcel of land for their kids and grandkids enjoyment.  Many many hours have been spent at “The Property” both working and playing.  Together as a family, they are building bonds that will last forever. 

November
7 – Holcim BOE hearing
8 – Elder’s quorum party
11-15 Gwen to St. George – UAC
20 – football banquet


November 10, 2002
Today is Sunday.  I taught my lesson in Young Women’s today.  It was on being dependable.  I have been in Young Women’s since April, and I’m enjoying it VERY much.  Lauri Robinson is the President, Coy Ann Kilmer is the 1st councilor, and Tammy Bullock is the 2nd counselor.  I work with Sherrie Rich (under Tammy) as an advisor to the Beehives.  This past year (since February) I’ve become active again (me and Landon).  

It started last February when his Sunday school teacher Pacome Zoku, and his class came and personally invited Landon to come to church.  Pacome was the companion of Elder Johnny Barrett who was killed on his mission in 1999 (I think). He’s living with Johnny’s mom and dad now.  Landon really likes him a lot.  

To get this journal up to date…… let’s see. Landon wrestled last spring at the Junior High level, played competition baseball (14U league) in the summer, and just completed his Freshman year of football.  Wrestling starts tomorrow.  He will probably wrestle at 125 lbs.  He’ s a great kid.  He’s enjoying his Freshman year, and all of the reports I get from everyone, from his teachers, to advisors, to church leaders, to neighbors, to friends, to friends parents, everyone without exception has nothing but great things to say about Landon.  He is the life of the party, and a joy to be around.  He is so kind and friendly to all, and he knows just how to wrap his mom around his little finger !!  Gotta love him !!!  

Zac is still working at CPI, and they have just moved into their new shop this past week..  It is in Mt. Green, so he’ll have to travel about 10 miles each way to work.  Needless to say I will be worrying about him on the roads.  He is recovering from his accident on 9-21-02.  His muscles and ribs and neck still hurt, but he has been released by the doctor.  His collarbone really hurts in the morning.  He and C.J. Matthews have really hit it off, and have become quite close.  It seems they are together everyday and night.  He is happy, and while I worry about him getting hurt, and things moving too fast, I’m happy for him too !!  She is still a Senior in high school, so I told him to take things sloooooowwwwww !!  

Me and Zac and Roger went with Ben and Luann and Linda and Bruce to the Professional Bull Rider finals in Las Vegas a couple of weeks ago.  Zac did not like the gambling, and came home 2 days after we got there.  Apparently he’s not like his dad and Grand dad Rich !!  

Manda is still down in Mesa, and loving it.  She is working for AT&T and is doing really well.  She told me the other day that she is bringing home $850 (bring home pay) per week !!!!  She’s now living in a one bedroom apartment, just her and Raleigh.  She has a really good friend, Jim Schutt, who she tells me, she’s going to marry !! He’s 34 (12 years older than her), and seems really nice.  He really likes sports, and is very close with his family.  He’s never been married and has no kids.  They have been together for 11 months.  I hope everything works out for them.  I want her to be HAPPY !!  She deserves it !!  

I’m going to St. George tomorrow for UAC classes for my work.  I’ll be gone all week.  I’m not really looking forward to it, but maybe I can get some Christmas shopping done !?!?!? I hope so.  

The son of some ward members tried to commit suicide last week, but was unsuccessful, thank goodness.  He is in the hospital, and on the long road to recovery.  I hope he can heal both in body and mind.  


This is a letter I wrote to the ward members, November 17, 2002

Dear Ken and Marie

I’ve been going through some news clippings I’ve saved over the years, and came across the editorial you wrote when my sister Tonya died.  As I read through it, I thought of the trials your family is now facing.   I have copied the article here below, and inserted your names (in bold) where my parents were.  I believe you were inspired at the time you wrote it (1988), and I believe it now applies equally to your family as well.

Editorial – Morgan News – June 1988
The entire county was saddened and shocked by the tragic loss (tragedy) the Adams family has suffered.  Our heart felt sympathy goes out to the dear family and their relatives.  Ken and Marie Adams are one of the most respected couples in the valley.  They come from families rich in pioneer heritage and rooted firm in religious beliefs.  Marie always has a warm smile to greet you with and Ken a kind word to share.  Over the years they have given comfort and encouragement to many.  Now it is the time to return the favor.  Raising children is never easy.  Worry is always a factor.  When very young, the concerns are such things as, are they healthy, are they developing physically, and are they learning how to crawl, walk, and talk.  Later as they enter school, worries revolve around teachers, friends, safety and learning.  Then the teenage years arrive and all worries of the past seem to escalate.  After this critical period of time, parents still worry about their children as they begin families of their own.  Even when children are in their 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s, living parents will worry about these older children. Life is always unpredictable, and accidents, and tragedies can strike at any time.  It seems most damaging when it happens to the young ones.  We feel deep emotion or each one of them and their loved ones.

We are so thankful that Kenny’s life on this earth has not ended.  We are praying daily for his complete recovery.  May God’s choicest blessing be with all of you. 
Love Gwen Rich and family

Me, I’m still as fat and sassy as ever.  Hope I can lose weight someday……. Now where have I heard THAT before?   Well I’m going to try and be better at writing in my journal.  Hopefully I can keep this up!!   I’m trying to read the scriptures daily, but not having much success.  The Bishop asked me to speak in sacrament meeting on Christmas Day, I’m scared!!  Our new Bishop is GREAT.  It’s Craig Fisher, and his councilors are Jim Wiscombe and Ben Russell.  They are such neat people, and I love them a lot.  Also, me and Roger went to an Elder’s quorum party last Friday night.  It was fun, it was a progressive dinner, and thank goodness Rodney and Vicki Rose were there, so we had some people we knew to chum around with !!  Roger was pretty uncomfortable at first !!!  

Tomorrow I head to St. George for meetings (Utah Association of Counties).  I’ll be back on Friday.


November 17, 2002
Today was Sunday – it was great !!  I look forward to this day each week !! Can you believe I feel this way ??  I can’t sometimes…..  I am so blessed and thankful my life has made a turn around.  Tonight was the Young Women’s Evening of Excellence.  It was great !!  Gwen Hayes, secretary of the Relief Society called me yesterday, and asked for my help in putting together a slide show presentation (on the computer) to show tonight.  It worked really well, and we got a lot of compliments on it !!  I want to get the presentation program used by Gwen, it’s called Kai’s Power.  It’s really neat !!  

My week in St. George was good.  I rode down with Helen Hansen, Morgan County’s representative from the Utah State Tax Commission.  On Monday night a bunch of us went to supper at Pancho and Lefty’s (Mexican cuisine).  On Tuesday we went to Outback Steakhouse, on Wednesday, the group went to Mesquite, but I stayed behind because I didn’t really want to go.  On Thursday we went to Chili’s.  My meetings were good, and I got 13 hours of continuing education.  I did a lot of shopping, and got me some new clothes, and a few things for Christmas.  

Yesterday, Saturday, I should have got a lot done, but we didn’t, just layed around (me and Roger).  

Landon went over to Kaley Nelson’s house with a bunch of friends, and played games on Friday night, on Saturday (Day) he went up to Park City Ski Resort with his friend Jared Olsen, and they met up with a bunch of Morgan guys, and snow boarded.  Logan Taggart, a Morgan kid, broke his wrist.  They had a great day.  When he got home, he went down to Tim Poll’s and had ANOTHER party !!!  What a SOCIAL GUY !!!!  He is enjoying wrestling.  

Zac and C.J. are together everyday.  They seem happy !!  Well, better go for now !!

November 22, 2002
Today we are having a luncheon at the courthouse.  Our office (Assessor) will sponsor it.  We are having different kinds of soups.  

Wednesday night, we went to a banquet for Landon’s Freshman Football.  It was at Larry’s Chicken Inn, and it was good.  Each of the coaches talked about the boys.  It was a nice evening.  Today Landon will wrestle off with a senior, Troy Welch, for the 125 lb. Weight for varsity position.  We told him to just to his very best, and no matter what the outcome, we would be proud, and he could be proud.  Me and Roger and pretty nervous for him, but he says he’s not nervous.   

Zac and myself went to Ogden yesterday. He was supposed to have had a doctor’s appointment, but she had surgery so it was cancelled.  His foot and leg have been hurting him, and also his collarbone/shoulder/neck.  I guess we’ll have to reschedule.  We went to Ogden anyway, and did some shopping, Zac bought him some clothes and Ross’s.  He got a bunch of sweatshirts (for work) and a couple of other shirts.  Spent $94.00  - he hated to spend that much money on clothes.  Then he went to Cross’s and bought him two pair of Wranglers for work $40.00.  

C. J. came up last night and they hung out.  She is in the running for FFA Sweetheart, and had to bake a “turkey” cake for judging.  Zac said he could see himself marrying her and making a life with her.  I like her a lot.  Apparently she hasn’t been attending church regularly, and told Zac she wants to go back.  She told him that she thinks they would become even closer, if both of them went to church.  I’m glad she has those feelings.  I just wish Zac did.  He’s like his dad……  Love them both, but one of these days they might be sorry that they didn’t take this religion stuff more serious.  

I have been working on my Young Women’s award, and the first value area is Faith.  I have completed the first project.  I’ve been reading the scriptures all this week, and had felt the spirit when I do, and all through the day.  It really does make a difference.  I think of my Heavenly Father often, and try my best to be a good person.  I have been paying my tithing since August 1st.  I did a partial fast last fast Sunday, and want to try to do it correctly in the future.  I have changed my ways on Sunday, and am keeping the Sabbath Day holy.  It is hard for Zac and Roger to do this, I wish I could have some influence on them in this area.  I’m praying morning and night, and have cut down my swearing.  I need to work on not being so judgmental of others, and not gossiping or speaking badly of others.  I also want to increase my service to other people.  I love my Heavenly Father and my brother Jesus, who died for me, and suffered for my sins, and has felt personally all of the pain, and sadness I have felt in my life.  I know they love me personally, and want to see me succeed on this earth.  I saw the quote in Deseret Book, and I just love it – “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings, having a human experience.  I want so badly to be worthy to return to my Father in Heaven, and have him put his arms around me and say, well done.  I will try harder to be the kind of person he wants me to be. 





Sunday, September 1, 2002

September 2002 - Zac's accident

September

Landon still playing football
Dan still working on land guideline
21 – Zac’s accident

9/24/02
Just thought I’d take a minute and write down my thoughts and feelings of the past few days.  Saturday night at 8:50 p.m., Zac was involved in a car accident.  We got a call a little before 9 o’clock and it was Darrin Dawson.  Landon answered the phone, and I heard him say, “No, this is his son, Landon” – then I heard him say, “Oh, Hi – how are you?”  - then I heard the tone of his voice change, and I looked over at him and he had this horrified look on his face.  I knew right then that Zac had gotten in a car accident.  

I grabbed the phone, and Darrin told me that Zac had been broad-sided over by Gary Weitziel’s house.  (100 S. State Street intersection). I knew that Zac was in his little car, and that it would be bad.  I screamed for Roger and we all ran out of the house, and jumped in our truck and drove over to Morgan as fast as we could.  All the way, I was praying, “Heavenly Father, please bless our boy”, - over and over and over.  “Please comfort him and be with him and don’t let him be scared”.  

As we got closer, a calmer feeling came over me, and I knew that whatever the outcome – whether he was alive or dead, that everything would be alright.  As we turned the corner by the Spring Chicken Inn, we could see a ton of flashing lights, and so many vehicles.  We stopped in front of LaRue Waldron’s home, and ran down the street towards the accident.  I ran up to Blaine Breshears (a cop) and grabbed him, an asked him if Zac was alive.  He looked at me kind of surprised, and then reassured me that he was in fact alive, and had been talking to the EMT’s and that they were working to get him out of the car right now.  

I looked over and I could see him in the car.   I expected to see a lot of blood, but his blonde hair was beautifully shining through, and although he had a grimace of pain on his face as they were pulling him out onto the stretcher/body board – I was so thankful that he was alive, I almost could not believe it.  I was expecting the very worst, because of the way Ambure’s and Tonya’s accidents had turned out.  I immediately grabbed Rog’s cell phone, and called my mom and Roger’s mom.  The first words out of my mouth were, “Zac’s been in an accident, but HE’S ALIVE !!”.  

We were all pretty shook up, and as they were loading Zac into the ambulance, I reached over and touched his leg, and told him that me and Roger were here, and not to worry and that everything would be okay and that we loved him.  I rode down in the front seat of the ambulance, and Rog and Landon followed behind.  

As we pulled out, Austin Turner was driving, and he called on the radio and said they were transporting two victims to McKay Dee Hospital.  I looked at him, and said, “Who else is in here?”, and he informed me that C. J. Matthews had been in the car with Zac at the time of the accident.  I looked back into the ambulance and could not see her, because she was on a “shelf” at the side.  As the EMT’s were trying to assess their injuries, I could hear Zac responding to their questions, and that made me feel a lot better.  

He was complaining of his chest hurting really bad, and also his left ankle.  They wanted to start and I-V, and although I didn’t’ know it at the time, he was telling them NO – that he didn’t want them to stick him with a needle.  When Mary Alexander, the EMT that was trying to insert it asked me, “MOM, do we have your permission to insert and I-V” – I said of course, and I thought that was a little strange, but later found out it was because Zac was giving her a hassle about it.  Zac swore (the F-bomb) when they stuck him, but other than that was pretty cooperative.  He kept asking if C. J. was okay, as he could hear her hyperventilating beside him.  

As we were rocketing 90 + mph down the freeway, I wished I could have let Roger know that things were looking okay, and that Zac didn’t seem to be in a life threatening situation.  When we got to the hospital and they wheeled him into the E.R., he was really hurting in his chest, and was having a hard time breathing.  We stood by his side, and held his hand.  We told him we loved him, and that everything thing was going to be alright, and not to be scared.  He was blinking back tears and gritting his teeth, and he wanted his dad right there beside him.  

They cut off all of this clothing both in the car and in the ambulance, and he was mad about his brand-new Lucky’s !! ($70.00 pants)  The doctor thought they were going to have to put in a chest tube, and so they ushered us out for a minute.  They ended up NOT putting a chest tube in, but did put a catheter and another I-V line, and he didn’t think that was very fun at all.   They took a bunch of x-rays, and determined that his ribs were broken and his lung was punctured, and that his lung was 20% collapsed. The puncture had allowed air to escape into his chest cavity, and this is what caused the collapse.   Grandpa Lee Dickson gave him a blessing.   The doctor wanted to watch him closely to see if he would stabilize, and so he was admitted to the hospital.  

C. J. was banged and bruised up, but appeared okay until they took a urine sample and found blood.  They x-rays were ordered, and she was found to have a torn spleen and bruised kidney.  She was also admitted to the hospital for high observation.  Zac stayed in the hospital all day Sunday and Monday, and we were able to bring him home Monday night about 6 p.m.  

While in the hospital he had many visitors, and people who were very concerned for him called both at the hospital and at our home.  Words can’t express the gratitude and thankfulness we have to our Heavenly Father for sparing Zac’s life.  He and C. J. are so very lucky.  

When Roger came home on Sunday and took a look at the car he was pretty shook up.  When he called back to the hospital and talked to me his voice was shaking, and he said it was a miracle that they weren’t killed.  The man who ran the stop sign at State Street (as he was headed west) didn’t get a scratch.  He was driving a 1992 Dodge Ramcharger.  He had been up to Round Valley Golf Course to a party, and was driving with 3 times the legal limit of alcohol in his blood.  He was also talking on a cell phone.  The cops hauled him off to jail that night, and we haven’t heard anything since.  

As of this day (Tuesday) we are trying to work with insurance people and lawyers, and who knows where it will all end up.  I bet I have said “We are so lucky” about a jillion times – we are so fortunate, lucky, blessed, call it what you will.  We have our boy and are looking around us with a thankful heart, and not planning a funeral.  Thank you Lord !!

Tuesday, August 27, 2002

Subway Hike


August 27, 2002

Our group consisted of Gwen and Zac Rich, Annette Prescott, Jill Judd, Ed and Deb Kinsey, and Mark and Janene Walker, and our leader who had completed this hike many times before was Kent Page.  

We left one of our vehicles a the upper trail head and began our hike on a high plateau at 7000 ft. elevation.  This was going to be a bonding experience for Gwen and Zac.  After the Narrows like last year Gwen felt like she needed some “male’ support and help during this hike.  Zac volunteered to go, and Gwen really appreciated it.  What a great son !!

We headed east down a dirt path over a gentle partly wooded mesa. Our guide, Kent Page pointed out many things.  One of these, were trees that smelled like chocolate and vanilla, or was it just our imagination??? After a while we came to a broad expanse of white slick rock.  We hiked down this slickrock, angling to the right, and at the bottom of the slope, we again got on a trail that entered the brush and trees along side a small creek. This was supposed to be a pretty section with green ferns, but the because of the recent drought, most of the ferns were dead.  After several hundred yards, the trail emerged once again onto the slick rock and down to a creek crossing.  

We were now at 6300 ft. elevation.  We continued over the other side of the creek and crossed some rough rocky ground as we headed towards Russell Gulch.  The descent became steeper, and we finally reach the Russell Creek crossing at 5800 ft. elevation.  The scenery was spectacular, little did we know that it was only going to get better !!  There were the occasional strange rock formations, and some man-made ones called hoo-doos, which were trail markers.  

On the other side of Russell Creek, we climbed the red slickrock toward a bare rock saddle, and when we reached the saddle we could see a spectacular view south into a broad red slickrock bowl.  We continued into the bowl, heading south.  At this point the gulch was out of sight in gorge off to our right.  About 3.7 miles into the hike at about an elevation of 5600 ft. the trail quite suddenly arrived at a spectacular viewpoint high about the junction of Russell Gulch and the Left Fort of North Creek.  The view here is quite awesome; you can look both upstream and downstream into the canyon of Russell Creek.  It is hard to visualize how you will be able to make the descent into the canyon below you.  

Just a ways further, and to the right, Kent led us to the top of a steep and narrow gully by which to make the descent into the canyon.  In this gully we would drop 200 ft., arriving at the bottom beside a large pool.  This marked the start of a beautiful hike through the scenic and wondrously sculpted gorge of the Left Fork of North Creek, known through out the hiking world as “The Subway”.  

Climbing down this gully, was a lot like climbing down a ladder, not too hard, you just had to go slow and be careful.  Finally at the bottom, there was a stagnant pool of black water, but there was a path around it, and we didn’t have to go through it !!  In contrast to the reflected heat of the slick rock higher up, it is cool here in the canyon depths.  

We took our time, and took many pictures in this fantastic canyon.  Our first serious obstacle consisted of a large canyon blocking boulder forming a 15 foot drop.  We could have opted to go around one side and wade (swim?) through some gross water, but instead we climbed up on top of this huge rock, and squeezed down between the gap on the right between the boulder and the canyon wall.  Zac, Ed, and Kent went down first, into a cave like area, and Mark stayed up on top and braced his leg so that the women could hold on, and hang down to where the men down below could support their feet.  From there it was a short skip and jump across twigs and branches that were floating on top of the gross water.   

As we walked along the stream-bed there was no water, only sand.  A short distance further the canyon closed into a width of about 6 feet.  We arrived at a deep pool, that because of the drought was not kept fresh by running water, and was a BLACK, STAGNANT,  STINKY pool of what looked to be SEWER WATER., complete with floaties.  There was no way around this.  Some of wanted to lynch Kent Page at this point !!  Ed Kinsey was the first one into the water   As he eased into the pool, the black water closed around him and came up to his waist.  He took two steps, and it was almost up to his arm pits.  Another two steps…. And thank goodness it shallowed back out to waist height.  He continued on with his back pack high about his head, for another 30-40 feet, when this awful pool finally ended.  Thank goodness the water situation improved and FUTURE pools were much more clean and fresh !!  

Right after this horrible pool of black water, there was another pool that was much cleaner, and it was a good thing, because a short swim was required to get through it.  As we all tip-toed and swam through these two pools, little did we know that our adventure was only going to get MORE exciting.  

About a 100 yards further down the canyon we arrived at a more challenging and interest obstacle where the stream flowed through a very narrow slot only about 2-3 feet wide.  The water was initially only a few feet deep, however we quickly arrived a small two-stage waterfall by which the water falls into a small cavern with chest deep water.  Zac was the first one down – it was cold !!  Gwen descended next. With the help of Zac and Ed Kinsey.  The slot narrowed even more and at 18 inches wide there were some of us who were wondering it we were going to fit !!! But wait it gets better !!!  

We came up on two round boulders (about 1 ½ feet in diameter) jammed between the slot walls, one above the other.  This first one was about head height (6 ft.) and then there was a 6 inch space between it and the lower one which was wedged in about chest/waist height.  The water level in the canyon came up halfway on the bottom boulder.  Zac scrambled up onto the top boulder like any 21 years old male can, and perched there precariously with no room to spare.  A decision had to be made.  Did he haul the women up and over (breaking his neck and back in the process) or did we swim under the bottom boulder?  Gwen got panicked, and was afraid she would get stuck.  Janene Walker was the first brave soul.  She handed her backpack to Zac (on top), and then took a breath and went for it !! When She popped out on the other side, and she had to tread water as the canyon floor had dropped again, and the water was deep!!  She reached back under the bottom boulder half way, and grabbed Gwen’s hand,  1, 2, 3, and pulled her through.  One by one each of us took off our packs, handed them up to Zac, and then proceeded to take a breath and go under water to pass this obstacle.  It was scary, but exhilarating at the same time.  What an accomplishment !!! Mark Walker decided he didn’t want to get his HAIR wet, so he climbed up on the rock and jumped.  What he didn’t know (and we hadn’t told him) was the depth of the water had increased (remember?) and so he ended up dunking himself anyway!  After we all got past this obstacle were we wet and cold and proud.  

Downstream the canyon widened again, but the walls seemed to grow in height.  We stopped here to eat our lunch and bask in the sun, and try to warm up.  A little ways further the canyon narrowed to a slot again, and we arrived at Keystone Falls, easily recognized by a hole in the rock, just about the lip on the left.  There were bolts in the rock to anchor our rope to, and a large log, propped up against the falls.  We all shimmied down without any trouble, and with a little help from Zac.  

At this point we were at 5250 ft elevation.  As we continued on, the canyon walls narrowed and then widened, the height increased, and the overhangs and ledges characteristic of a subway appeared.  It continued this way for several hundred yards, until we arrived at another place where the stream dropped about 25 feet into a narrow slot in the canyon bottom as the canyon made a right turn. At this point, some of us maneuvered our way down the rock wall to a 10 ft. drop, where we either hung and dropped (the men), or were lowered by the men (the women).  Others that were really brave, were able to repel about 35 feet down a 45 degree slope until the last 10 feet, where it was straight up and down.  

After this repel we were in a short but magnificent section of “The Subway”.  We saw round pools filled, not with water, but with sand.  We had heard that the last flash flood through the canyon had been on July 24th and apparently there hadn’t been enough water since, to wash out the sand-filled pools.  As we hiked on, the canyon opened up into a more convention shape.    There were no more repels, steep waterfalls, or swimming underwater after this point, only scrambling over boulder fields.  

In the next half mile we walked along the stream bed through a series of beautiful and gentle cascades over red sandstone.  These falls looked slippery, and sometimes Gwen sat down to make sure she didn’t fall, but it was really pretty easy to walk down the water covered rocks.  The canyon bottom gradually became normal, and there was a trail along the right side of the creek.  There were a number of nice swimming holes that we got wet in – just to keep cool.  

This part of the hike seemed endless (at least to me).  Towards the end we saw some dinosaur tracks fossilized in the rocks.  We finally reached a small stream entering from the right, where we filled our bottles with purified water from the stream before we began our climb out of the canyon.  

The beginning of the climb out of the gorge was about 8.3 miles from the start of the hike, and at this point we were at 4700 ft. elevation.  The hike out was grueling for some of us, while others, seemed to scramble right out !!! (Mark, Janene, Ed, and Deb)  As we stood at the bottom of the canyon and looked up at the 400 ft. of mountain that we had to climb, (most of it looking like it was straight up) we didn’t think it could be done.  Putting one foot in front of the other, slowly but surely we began the climb out.  The group at the end (Jill, Annette, Gwen Zac and Kent) stopped about half-way up the mountain for about 30 minutes, to let Jill Judd’s dizzy spell pass.  The rest did Gwen and Annette good, and Zac and Kent were good sports about it.  

We finally reached the top of the canyon and it was a pretty flat hike back to the lower trail-head.  The first ones out the gorge, had already taken the car that was left there, and shuttled up and got the truck we had left early that morning.  All in all it was a 9 1 /2 mile hike, which took us 10 hours  (8:30 am to 6:30 pm.  We had a great time, and were sure glad we had our fearless leader, Kent Page along for guidance and expertise.  We MAYBE could have done it without him, but it would have taken much LONGER and wouldn’t have been nearly as fun.


Thursday, August 1, 2002

August - September 2002

July
3 – Gwen to dermatologist for mark on face (Landon, Temple Square)
8-12 Landon at Scout Camp (Bartlett)
9 – YW party at property
13 – baseball party at property
19 – Friend party at property
Dan Biedenbach comes up to work on Mt. Green Land guideline

August
1 – Morgan County Fair
22 – School starts (Landon a Freshman)
27– Hike the Subway

August 24, 2002 - This is a letter I wrote to Amy Jo my friend

Long time since we've talked!?!?

How's football going?  Landon's 1st game is next Thursday against Park City.  He went with a few friends down to the Millard/Morgan endowment game in Fillmore last night.  I think he said we lost 6-7.  I was asleep when he came home.  He is definitely going to be MR. SOCIAL.  He is enjoying high school.  At least the first TWO days of it.  Have your kids gone back yet?  I bet you are busy busy busy - I know it's that time of year !! 

How's work going?  How's your friend GAIL???  We (Me and Dan Biedenbach) have been working on the Mt. Green land guideline for a little over a month now.  He comes up 3 days a week.  We are almost ready to start putting it down in final format.  Hopefully  another week will do it.  We are taking next week off because I've got so much going.  Even with all the reappraisal in Morgan City, and the tax hike (by both the county and school) - we haven't gotten TOO MUCH FLAK!!  Surprising.  You know I always think the worst !! 

The HIKING group is headed south again !!!  We are going to hike "The Subway" which is near Zion Park.  It's a SHORTER hike than the Narrows, but this one involves swimming, rappelling, etc.  I hope I survive.  Zac, bless his heart is going to do it with me for support this time !! YEA!!! We are driving down Monday afternoon, staying in Mark and Janene's condo that night, hiking it Tuesday, and then Rog will drive us back Tuesday night and hopefully we'll be home before 11 or midnight because we've all go work Wednesday morning.  Rog is going to live it up in Mesquite - while we're having fun in the canyons!!  Mark and Janene Walker, Annette Prescott, Jill Judd, Ed and Deb Kinsey, and Kent Page (do you know him?) from my work (planning and zoning) are going.  Kent has done it before, and he's going to be our fearless leader!!!  Here's a website you can look at !!  www.climb-utah.com/zion/subway   Are we CRAZY or what?!?!?!?!?

Stacy Lafitte's birthday was a couple of days ago, and her husband surprised her with a new "inferno" red JEEP !!!!  She's on cloud nine as you might imagine.  Craig Fisher (council man) (Don Julio man) was just made my new bishop!!?!?!  This should prove interesting?!?!?!  Me and Landon have "Reformed" and are going to church regularly !!! Surprise Surprise.  I am in the Young Women Program, which Landon just loves it !!  He wants me to have him come to one of my lessons as a "visual aid"  if you can believe it !!!  Landon was just made the 1st councilor in his Teacher's quorum, and he had to give a talk in Sacrament meeting (on Scout camp) a couple of weeks ago.   I was a nervous wreck - but he wasn't - he's a natural !!  I've attached a couple of pictures of him and a video - I don't know if you can get it to work or not.  Try it - it's hilarious !!.

Well I better go - It's 6:30 Saturday morning, (I couldn't sleep) and now it's a quarter to 7 and I told mom I'd come and help her set out things for a yard sale this morning. Her ward is having a joint one, and she's got a bunch of stuff from Grandma Tonks' house. 

See ya - write back and let me know how your life is going !!!!

LOVE GWEN




Saturday, June 1, 2002

Memories of Grandma Tonks


Memories of Grandma Tonks
Compiled by a grand-daughter – Gwen Dickson Rich

Our Grandma Tonks is the sweetest Grandma in the world.  We, her grandchildren were so very lucky to have her for as long as we did. Over the past few days we have put down in words our feelings and remembrances about our sweet little Grandma.  We would like to share them with you now.

Grandma loved visitors – especially her grandkids.  All of us grew up believing we had “sweet little hearts” because as Susan, her oldest grand-daughter said, “Grandma was always saying, “Bless your sweet little heart”.

Candy remembers snapping beans out on the back porch during her stays on the weekends in the summer.  Even if you were working, it was fun just to be with Grandma.

Sleeping over at Grandpa and Grandma Tonks’ was always a special treat.  In the mornings, Laurie remembers Grandma singing and humming as she did her work -  it was the greatest thing to wake up to.

Heidi, Russell, and Kimberly remember jeep rides up to Little Grove, home-baked bread, and family dinners with Grandma there in her apron, ready to feed us all.

David loves Grandma’s smile and wink, and Danny remembers her laugh.  Even when Grandma was done laughing, she still had the look of laughter on her face, and he can see this in his mother Jolene also.

Walking down Grandma’s long sidewalk, and looking for her through the kitchen window was always special.  Stephen remembers standing on the ledge outside of the window when he was small.  If you held on really tight to the windowsill, you could peek in and see Grandma, and she was always there.

One day Grandma took Troy down by the river fishing – just the two of them.  He doesn’t remember if they caught any fish that day, but he does remember being together and her taking some time with him – one on one.

Richard loved smelling the homemade bread when he woke up in the mornings after sleeping over when he was little, and of reading her journals and looking at the photo albums.   As he got older and would go hunting for deer in the hills, he would always stop by after he was done.  Grandma would always tell him to “Come out sooner, I’ve been worrying about you” and “Did you get one?”

In Grandma’s back bedroom, there is a shelf above the window covered with trinkets and figurines.  Mary Ann remembers getting to choose one for her very own – Grandma was a very unselfish person and always ready to share what she had.

Michael, Aaron,  & Carol won’t forget the Homemade bread and cinnamon rolls, Franco American Spaghettio’s, oatmeal cookies, family picnics, going fishing  – We all have these special memories of Grandma. 

Grandma was a lunch lady for a few years at Morgan Elementary.  Those of us who lived in Morgan were able to see her every morning before school when we would poke our heads in to say Hi, and then again in the lunch line during lunch !  She always had time to stop and give us a kiss on the cheek, and slip us an extra cookie.

Grandma loved to write, whether it was in her journal everyday, or letters to her family and friends.   Nicole Tonks her great-grand daughter started writing Grandma when she was 11 years old, and was thrilled when Grandma wrote back !!  They wrote back and forth for 3 years, and I don’t know who was more excited, Nicole or Grandma, when they would receive each other’s letters.  If you ever got a card or letter from Grandma, you would treasure it forever.  She always asked about our dear husbands or wives, and our sweet children.  Grandma’s love was unconditional and we never doubted it for a minute.

Gwen remembers playing in the big barn up at Round Valley.  Uncle Lewis and Grandpa Tonks didn’t always want us up there, because “We would scare the sheep” -  but Grandma always let us do pretty much what we wanted (so we’d be sure to ask her).  Whether it was climbing the big box-elder tree in the back yard, playing in the orchard, or hiking up on the hills collecting snail shells – it was always fun at Grandma’s house.

How many of you remember Nightmare Theatre that came on every Friday night at 10:30 p.m. right after the news?  We never got to watch it at our house, but you can bet if we were sleeping over at Grandmas on a Friday, she was right there beside us, curled up on the couch in blankets – watching it with us !!

Erika – spent A LOT of time with Grandpa and Grandma Tonks. She remembers dancing with Grandma while dusting the living room.    Grandma loved to dance.  She would always put on her "Ray Coniff - Somewhere My Love" album, or her "Magic Organ" album and dance.  When Erika would sleep over at Grandmas, she first slept on a little bed, by the side of Grandma’s bed, until she graduated to the big bed in the back bedroom!  Grandma always had Erika scratch her back before they went to sleep.

Our Grandma Tonks was a short little lady and we loved it!  When you got to be about 9 or 10 years old, the thing to do was start measuring up with Grandma !!  It was always so exciting when you got to be taller than she was !!  Every one seemed to eventually reach this point except Erika.  Everyone who asks Erika why she’s so short says, "Your parents aren't particularly short, what happened to you!?"  She just replies, "You haven't seen my Grandma, have you?"

 When Mark was in high school he worked at Round Valley golf course where he watered the golf course in the afternoons and evenings during the summer.  Almost every night after it would get dark he would visit Grandma and Grandpa in between water settings.  These visits became a part of his nightly routine. Grandma would always offer to fix him something to eat and was very concerned that he wasn't getting too cold or too wet.  Most nights they would just sit and visit and it became something he really looked forward to. 

Since moving back to Morgan it has been a blessing to Mark to see his children get to know Grandma and to visit her just like he did as a child.  Just last month while visiting Grandma on Mother's Day they climbed the tree, peeked in the cupboards, played with the worn out yellow and red wooden dominos and peered down the stairway into the dark basement, all in less than an hour.  How wonderful it is that these same memories have been passed down to another generation of grandkids.


Brett spent many weekends and weeks during the summer with Grandpa and Grandma.  He always enjoyed getting out of the city and spending time on the farm.  Grandma would spoil him rotten (his words – not mine !).  He remembers Grandma taking him and my sister Tonya to the County Fair every summer.  It was lots of fun – but he’s sure they must have worn Grandma out.

Casey remembers that Grandma was always there for everyone, and was always willing to help with anything, AND she was always ready to feed him !!

The youngest grandchild in the family is Stormy.  Oh how Grandma and Grandpa loved to have her visit and stay with them. Stormy will always remember singing, reading, and saying nursery rhymes with Grandma – she was one in a million.

Our Grandma was always excited when we would come to visit.  She never wanted us to go.  She loved to fuss over the kids.  As you would leave, she would always be waving out her kitchen window, and as we drove down the street we would see her again at her living room window still waving good-bye, this we will miss most of all.

Grandma had an undying love for Grandpa and she missed him so much. She would often say that she wished he would just walk through the door to talk for a little while.  We are so grateful that they are together once again. 

We are so fortunate to have had the love of our Grandparents in our lives.  I hope and pray we can carry on their legacy of unconditional love in our own families.  This is my prayer in the name of Jesus Christ – Amen.

Tuesday, January 1, 2002

January to June - 2002

January 
1 – got back from our annual trip to Pinedale
12 – Landon wrestling at Wasatch ( 3rd place)
15 – Luncheon meeting with the Historical Society
16 – Leave for Yuma/Phoenix vacation with Annette Prescott and Karly
Landon in wrestling (Jr. High)
Dan Biedenbach comes up to work on land guideline (city/final)

February
1,2  Snowmobiling at Woodland
8 – Winter Olympics
7 – Landon fiberotomy
8 – Landon Valentine's Dance
9 – Manda comes home for a visit  (2002 Olympics)
14 – Gwen 1st Mammogram
15 – Light of the World with mom and dad (2002 Olympics)
16 – Manda leaves for home (Mesa)
22 – taxes done

March
1,2 Bear Lake Snowmobiling (Jill Judd's sister's cabin)
4 – EKG for Gwen (nothing wrong)
6 – Landon etiquette dinner YM
7 – file for office (to run for Assessor again)
15,16 Pinedale snowmobiling
25     Republican caucus meetings
29 – Concert?

Things I did for Zac                  Things he did for me


Made homemade Pizza for Supper, and
Made sure some was left over for his
lunch  

Prayed for him                                                            Gave me the silent treatment
                                                                                    Except for when he
Worried about where he was when                            Needed a question answered
            He hadn’t come home from                            On his snowmobile title
            Work when we went to bed
            At 10 p.m.

Told him how to fill out his Title
            For the snowmobile he sold

April
2-5 Gwen USPAP classes
6 – Landon passes Hunter Safety test
3 – Landon braces off
10-12 UAC in Park City
21 – Grandma Tonks birthday party with her brothers/sisters
24 – Baby cats (first batch)
Roger is planting Orson’s hay and Dickson Farm Oats

April – May installed as advisor to the Beehives in the YW program at church

June 
Landon is playing baseball in the Rock Mountain League
3-7 – Gwen and Annette on Cruise (San Diego, Catalina Island, Ensenada)
Elizabeth Smart kidnapped
6 – Grandma Tonks dies
10 – Grandma Tonks funeral
17-21 Landon football camp (in Morgan
22 – Trip to Arizona to see Diamond Back baseball game
25 – Back to Price (Assessor summer workshop)

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